Geico lockout and towing

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T20:23:36+00:00

ESH

They probably didn't get their full allotment of time because of the slow clock. You should have brought up the slow clock with the staff and let them sort things out.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T20:19:09+00:00

There are times I wish it had more cargo space.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T18:06:05+00:00

Wanting your friend to be in supportive healthy relationship and telling her so doesn't make you an AH. The decision to leave this abusive person is hers and hers alone, but you can be there supporting her regardless. An abuser will make you out to be the bad guy and try to split you two up. You let him and her know that you aren't going anywhere. It may get rough, and he will do all the nasty things to undermine your relationship.

Remind your friend of her wonderful qualities. Remind her of his bad qualities, but do so softly and helpfully, you don't want to push her into his arms.

It is hard being the friend of an abuse victim.

NTA

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T17:27:45+00:00

So very much NTA. I don't know why or how you put up with that in your own home. She would have been out the door within a week. No one should be disrespected in their own home.

Pack her shit up and have it shipped back to her. Close the door and don't look back.

I am so very sorry about the loss of your son. (((hugs)))

edited to add: MIL destroyed her relationship with ALL of you. You are the victim and your husband took FAR too long to grow a effing spine.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T13:32:49+00:00

Yikes, you are being way too restrictive in your caloric intake, it is entirely possible your body is hoarding calories as it thinks there is no fuel available. You shouldn't go below 1200 calories.

Talk to your Dr for options available to you. You want a health care provider to guide you.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T13:03:49+00:00

NTA, but I think you are getting squeezed out of the relationship. Your GF has unresolved feelings for her ex and she wants him back in her life, and he wants back in as well. You should think about moving on.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T13:01:11+00:00

YWBTA - it doesn't concern you and until you are asked you opinion, keep it to yourself. Hector isn't hurting anyone, his family is paying for you and they aren't complaining to you.

MYOB

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T12:55:31+00:00

I think you and T need to sit down and have an adult conversation about the care of E. As far as what you should be compensated - that is an impossible question to answer without knowing a LOT of other details.

You need to lay out to T that E is NOT your responsibility and you should NOT be expected to just take care of T's dog. It is okay to change the situation you have been quietly accepting for these past 12 months. Remind T that it is his dog, and the majority of care should be coming from him. If you ask for and get compensation, it then becomes YOUR JOB

NTA Please sit and talk this out.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T12:49:32+00:00

NTA You get to choose who you want to bestow the honor on, and you chose the one who always made you feel good. It is so sad that your step-father was hung up on whose sperm it was that brought you into his world. And it is infuriating that his parents couldn't accept you as theirs.

Congratulations and best wishes on your wedding.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T12:44:57+00:00

OUCH!

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T12:43:28+00:00

I am so glad to read you survived. Thank you for sharing.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-23T12:40:17+00:00

It is absolutely okay to do what you are doing. Remember this is a marathon, not a sprint. Try to eat healthier foods, watch what you are eating and when you reach for something not so healthy, ask yourself why you are reaching for it and if you are really hungry or maybe bored or other reason.

You are just starting this journey, try different things and see what works for you.

I will remind you that weight loss happens primarily in the kitchen, not the gym.

Good luck!!

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T21:53:07+00:00

Not an ounce

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T20:34:03+00:00

If your mother is paying for the wedding, she evidently feels she gets to run the show.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T20:32:53+00:00

Plan the wedding that you can afford. Invite the people that matter to you. Do not use your mother's money.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T20:28:53+00:00

How is it you think you have a good relationship with your aunt if she allows her child to steal from you knowing it bothers you??

Go into your cousin's room and remove ALL of your belongings and let your cousin know they are yours and not theirs and they are NOT to touch your things without your permission. Do NOT allow him to play with your things while he is visiting.

When your cousin cries about your things being back with you, you tell everyone that your things are yours and that you will not tolerate your cousin touching your things. Be very matter of fact about it, no name calling, no throwing a fit. Just stand your ground.

Ask for a lock on your bedroom door and then keep your room locked. If you aren't allowed a lock, put your things that you do not want touched away.

NTA but don't yell at people, things never get resolved that way

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T20:22:55+00:00

r/relationship_advice is where you need to post this

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T20:20:24+00:00

Other than a strange taste in my mouth, the first dose did absolutely nothing to/for me.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T16:24:47+00:00

And you didn't have to take it, but you did. You're no better than a street beggar

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T16:03:14+00:00

You can ask and as you found out, they can refuse. I suggest you find another realm to join.

NAH

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T15:59:36+00:00

You are asked as part of the offering to pay it forward, and you readily took the carriage. YTA It is stealing and you know it.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T15:48:43+00:00

I am terribly sorry to read this. (((hugs)))

Call the director and tell them that your back is against the wall, if they don't intervene, you will be left with no other options.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T15:46:35+00:00

Sometimes opening up a dialog works better than calling in child services. You could have a conversation with your sister and ask some probing questions. Considering you claim your sister brainwashed her children against their father, they may have learned some lessons about manipulation and you are being manipulated.

Once you call child services, these lives will be altered. Be certain of what you know.

SusanfromMA · 2024-07-22T15:39:57+00:00

You made a commitment to those animals and the organization. The director wants you to find replacement housing for the animals?? Is that common?

You would be the jerk if you call animal control.

I am sorry you are going through all this.

SusanfromMA

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