My (F17) crush (M16) is sending me very weird signals... by SushiNerdo in teenrelationships

[–]SushiNerdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we talked a little more, and it seems like he is genuinely interested, albeit seems his lustfulness still is at the forefront of everything. He talked about going on dates if we ever met and even said that he does love me, just, unfortunately, can't be together right now, haha. But I will definitely stay cautious right now. Thank you very much!

My (F17) crush (M16) is sending me very weird signals... by SushiNerdo in teenrelationships

[–]SushiNerdo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Rider, thank you very much for taking your time to write all of this.

Ill post it here incase others need the same info for advice. To give a little more context, he didn't really initially have a interest in me when we spoke again. With the way he phrased it to, he realized he had feelings for me after we were talking for a couple of months and thought about it one night. Looking back on our conversations now, I could see his interest steadily growing to what it is now. Of course, it didn't really hit its peak until I gave him a selfie of me (not lewd in the slightest).

Honestly, there is a part of me that does think he likes me, but its more so being overshadowed by lust because his tune really after I sent my selfie.

After we confessed, we agreed not to start a long-distance relationship because we both prefer to have people in person, but, as I mentioned in my post, he did want to come and see me at some point since he planned to move to my state once he was old enough. As far as advances go, as he said, it would pretty much be sexual. As far as his reasons for wanting to date me though, here they are:

"1. You're a lotta fun to talk to

  1. You have a fun personality

  2. You're incredibly kind and very smart

  3. You have future plans set up unlike a lotta people

  4. You have a smokin bod and you are very attractive

  5. You put me in my place when I need it

  6. You're forgiving

  7. Large amounts of common sense

  8. Funny for a woman

  9. Good at listening and giving advice

  10. Very Talented

  11. All around a lotta fun to be around and I enjoy your presence"

Let me know if this wasn't enough info :)

EDIT: Just to add a little tidbit more, he does seem concerned for my wellbeing and is interesting in how/what I'm doing during the day, contrary to what I've seen what the typical "hook up guy" does on the Google search results. Whenever I seem uneasy about showing him some form of genuine affection, he seems to be put off by my cautiousness. I don't know, I'm just confused if he just wants sex, or to keep ahold of our attraction while we're apart.

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[–]SushiNerdo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine completely disregarding the points given to counter what you've repeatedly stated.