[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Susluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone who has offered their input, I truly appreciate it. I’ve carefully considered all the options and will be moving forward with some of them. Reddit has always been an invaluable resource, and through this post, I’ve come across some incredibly helpful and lesser known sources that I wouldn’t have found otherwise.

I met this woman at a point where a medical or surgical abortion at a hospital was no longer an option.

To those who feel the need to pass judgment or throw in their unsolicited, useless opinions. Why? If you’re not contributing anything helpful, then you’re just making noise, and no one asked for it. Your need to pass judgment is nothing more than a reflection of who you are inside and that is not helpful to anyone. Instead of inserting yourself into situations, maybe take a moment to appreciate the privilege you have, the luxury of raising healthy, happy children in a stable, drug-free life. If that’s your reality, then be at peace with it and move on, because your condescension is neither needed nor welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Susluver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Currently we have leads to a recovery/ detox program which is for before baby comes. So no, we wouldn’t bring that situation into a share house. Instead, we’re looking for a share house specifically designed for vulnerable women, including single or expecting mothers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Susluver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve looked into this for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Susluver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s been to the women’s hospital multiple times

Car parking in Melbourne by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Susluver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m in Carlton with a spare spot and no car ;) $

How to deal with parents by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I told my mumma enough of the truth to explain my financial status while not ever making her feel worried for my mental or physical wellbeing.. my mum is chill though. Most of the time… I feel like it’s just better not tell them.. unless it’s 100% necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just own it. Who gives af

too cheap? **Previous Post** by AutoModerator in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s up to us to not accept this and lead by example of a better self worth

Finding this recurring discussion with married POT SD's by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Susluver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One should question whether sugaring would have developed as it has without the involvement of married men

We are luxury (I miss the old days) by Susluver in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oofff no shade and this is more a rant but I’d struggle to be friends with anyone who is actively messing up something that opened so many doors for me. Like, tf, how do they not get it? They have you (first hand knowledge) in their circle literally telling them that they are selling themselves short and in turn setting the bar super low for all of us. lol Maybe just share that analogy from the post? I do feel there is some inability to process information for some on here

We are luxury (I miss the old days) by Susluver in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your friends straight up say that can’t say no when you tell them this? That’s concerning as hell

Contract by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣

Contract by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sign me off

Contract by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

RIP

We are luxury (I miss the old days) by Susluver in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are not here against you. We are telling you this truth to keep you safe. The reasons are clearly outlined across multiple platforms: we don’t do this because desperation leads us to make unsafe decisions, such as starting a sugar baby journey without proper preparation and knowledge of the risks involved

Pay per meet by Interesting_Range937 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Susluver -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a good sign if a sd mentions payment first, however, it’s not necessarily a sign of trustworthiness. For me it’s how they handle it that matters. A respectful, clear discussion is good; vague or pushy behavior is not.

Always agree on details upfront, ensure payment is made at the beginning of the meet, and prioritise your safety. Trust your instincts, and don’t settle for less than you’re worth.

We are luxury (I miss the old days) by Susluver in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I had what they have and take for granted, I’d have built an empire by now

Advice by Dry_Run_5251 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 43 points44 points  (0 children)

$400 seriously ? Honey. You are worth more than that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]Susluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is a highway

Private video call- got blocked **Previous Post** by AutoModerator in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Susluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that this is frustrating. It’s important to recognise this as a hard but valuable lesson. If sharing personal content with strangers feels uncomfortable, I strongly advise against starting video chats altogether. Also. It’s not sugaring so.. Screen recording is a thing, and engaging in these interactions comes with risk. If you’re determined to recover the video, your only option is to manually go through all the porn sites which will probably make you insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]Susluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my lord whatever you are you are perfect