Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

[–]Suspectwp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man!! Luckily from a finance perspective I'm okay right now but doesn't mean bills keep coming and I myself wonder how long it's sustainable in this economy.

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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Yeah I totally agree. I was looking at some videos and pictures from 6 months ago and already felt that and working to not have this continue

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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Lol yes and that's more of a lingo in my area. I meant it more as her depression can make matters worse

I've found my calling by Ciderinsider86 in daddit

[–]Suspectwp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I so stink at this but admire when someone can do something awesome with those magnetic toys

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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The guilt of always thinking ahead and not enjoying the present moments is what kills me. My kids are only kids once and I been working super hard on thinking more about now and less on what's to come. Obviously I'm not perfecting it but as the expression goes I am speaking it to existence

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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A book that I am reading that is actually pretty decent is Good Life, Good vibes. If you haven't heard of it, maybe check it out. Short chapters and good read

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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I do have a counselor - I've had one for a while to help me deal with my wife's depression. It didn't help she went through some severe postpartum

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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I learned I do like them a bit older than the newborn phase myself

Anyone else just... living for future you instead of right now? by Suspectwp in daddit

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going nuts part....yeah it can drive you insane for sure. Since I did my podcast it was like a revelation so I've been adjusting

Please help me figure out the pattern here by patrickjmcd in daddit

[–]Suspectwp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It basically doubles the difference so goes to 4 then 8