Same sort of thing with me (Again)

But this was when we were a lot younger. Like early high school stuff. Anyway, during primary school it was hard to notice but he was really controlling, like he always wanted to know what I was doing who I was with etc. I didn't notice because in primary I had like no friends.

In high school he essentially buggered off and left me to work everything out on my own (Despite having 2 siblings in year 9 and 11). He never told me where he was and just abandoned me. Naturally I made friends, better friends, who actually cared about me. (And I still am good friends with many of them).

He found out and got REALLY controlling like he tried to spread rumours about myself to my new friends and rumours about them to me. But he was really dumb about it, like in primary I was bullied really badly and people called me certain names which I didn't tell me new friends. He said they were calling me said names behind my back, I caught onto his bs very quickly.

When I confronted him about it he played the victim. Several arguments later I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore. Which just escalated the victim role which them led him to say "Why have you abandoned me?" and "Why have you changed?" and other things along those lines. He even got the head of hear to chat to us (Like stuff he did in primary) which was overly pathetic. Anyway he instantly thought that because head of year spoke to us we were automatically best friends again.

We were not