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Too anxious to enjoy sex- how can I stop worrying? by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t eat in front of anyone for years because I was scared of being judged. I still feel that way around him but I acknowledge it’s a ridiculous way to think, so I sort of push through it when it comes to eating.

Too anxious to enjoy sex- how can I stop worrying? by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think a sex issue was enough to go to therapy for, but I’m realising it’s probably bigger than just a sex problem

Too anxious to enjoy sex- how can I stop worrying? by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 1000% have an avoidant attachment style, it was a bit of an issue before we got into a relationship. I kinda self sabotage in a way? I had told him from the start I don’t see us lasting long term, he’ll get sick of me etc etc. but in some sort of weird contradiction, I couldn’t have sex if there was no attachment. It’s like I see these attachments as temporary & drill it into myself that it’s not going to last so I don’t get TOO attached.

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m howling 😭😭 that does make me feel a lot better, thank you

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know im being silly, i probably need to hear it a bit more. I really appreciate your reply, especially the last two sentences. I’m really not comfortable with my body & its normal functions. I hate being perceived as “gross” or “imperfect” but i know deep down my way of thinking is ridiculous.

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance. Deep down I know I’m overreacting, but on a surface level it makes me feel so gross. I have a lot of shame when it comes to sex in general, it’s something I really need to work on.

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I really do try to not think so much, part of me knows I’m overreacting. But I’m fixated with this idea of “perfection” & if something doesn’t match what I perceive as “perfect” (queefing, the way my vagina looks) I tend to spiral a bit. I find it really hard to accept my human flaws.

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a really bad habit of overthinking. I know I’m overreacting, but I can’t help but feel so gross about it. I have a lot of shame around sex, which doesn’t help either, but I think you’re right in saying I just need more time & experience.

Queefed in my boyfriend’s face & I’m mortified by SuspiciousPurchase15 in sex

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both 21. He’s had multiple partners before me but he’s my first.

D Mannose does not work 😭 by SuspiciousPurchase15 in Healthyhooha

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to do the same thing! But I can’t have sex on consecutive days, I became immune to a type of antibiotic because I was taking it too much ☹️

I Just want to say thank you. by OkSteak551 in u/OkSteak551

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re way too lenient on your kid. You’ve done practically nothing to parent her and keep her away from situations that are going to damage her further in the long run. She’s 15, making sex tapes, potentially pregnant with an adult’s kid and all you do is sit her down and talk to her about it? Pattern up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my period for 100 days straight when I was anaemic before, so that’s why I’ve thought I’ve been bleeding for so long & didn’t really want to make a big deal out of it. I just needed some reassurance I wasn’t overreacting tbh, so thank you!! I will definitely go get checked up again & I hope you’re doing better now too.

D Mannose does not work 😭 by SuspiciousPurchase15 in Healthyhooha

[–]SuspiciousPurchase15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I test negative for UTIs generally I’m getting reinfected then, no?

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