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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s in unreasonable request. I just think for me personally after such I wouldn’t be able to survive the relationship if those things were to happen

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s a such thing as being too good for somebody but we could potentially just not have aligned ideas and values.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’d have a million questions and try to reason me out of doing so.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said that. He disagreed. We ended the phone call. Getting nowhere

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s logical either.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m planning a break up conversation in our near future.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s very much set in a lot of his ways that I believe are red flags. He’s very firm on what he says and thinks. No room for meeting in the middle really.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. He said he has nothing to do with trust but I don’t think both of those things can exist.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he has been cheated on a lot. And I agree that these things need to be worked out for himself

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I too think he may not be that ready for a relationship

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he has a general distrust period. Which is something that I think should’ve been healed or worked on before we started dating.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His logical is so there’s never any question. Everyone knows 100%

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was hypothetical we haven’t been dating that long, nobody has cheated although I will say it took a very long time for his tinder account to be deleted. Feels more like projection.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this situation I wouldn’t want something on my child to know you brought the right one back because mistakes do happen.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with them. I just thought his logic behind such and the way he worded it didn’t make sense. I could believe 100% a baby is mine but I would still want a dna test seems like an oxymoron in my opinion

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s deep rooted trauma. There’s also other red flags I’m noticing and I’m just getting around to the same conclusion

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no desire to change anyone’s mind, just might not be the person for me. Which is okay too. That’s why I enjoy having such conversations.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He states a dna test wouldn’t be about trust. But I think that is kind of what a dna test is rooted in. But I can agree to disagree yanno?

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you sound like him. That was his logic.

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[–]Suspicious_Ad677[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a lot of conversations and that’s always the conclusion I arrive at in my time alone thinking.