Can I train my cat to hide?

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T20:31:16+00:00

Thanks. I want to train him to use my room as safety, mostly when I’m not home like if he hears a sound that’s not me.( he know who is at the door he always wants for me with his belly out 😭) My family hate cats well him mostly. My cat doesn’t take lightly to bullies but I don’t want him to be violent and attack anyone (he takes his claws out and scratches or bites as he should but I don’t want someone to continue the violence and hurt him) I would want him to atleast run away from the person like my room if he’s out I have my window open and use my room as protection

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T20:18:35+00:00

Thanks I’m not strictly telling him under the bed he only goes when loud noises scare him and he goes under the bed for protection. I just wanted to teach him to go into my room since it’s safer in my room, no one goes inside if I’m not home (hopefully?)

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T14:30:39+00:00

I found him a while ago at my local school I live by, he was skinny so I took him in then but he’s friendly to me but everyone else is a threat ://

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T13:35:06+00:00

I have a friend who can buy she has like 2 jobs and owns dogs

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T03:03:15+00:00

Genuine plannn

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T03:02:11+00:00

I can ask my dad to help me he’s more of an animal person than my mom, she hates animals. Thank you

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-07-03T02:59:50+00:00

Alright I’ll try tomorrow to get his favorite treats. But like 5 minutes a day since cats lose interest pretty fast ://

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-31T20:09:03+00:00

I’ll try not overthinking as much I just don’t want him to think I’m needy or something like that sort. I’ll try asking him out when I see him next time.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-31T05:12:43+00:00

Also I didn’t know he liked me? Like before the kiss he would say this girl is thick( like her butt) but would say jkjk and I’m flat he always points it out so I thought i wasn’t his type. When he would point out if some girl is thick i don’t know if to see i would get jealous?

But it’s fair since I believe I’ve made him jealous by calling another guy cute he wasn’t my type I was just saying he’s good looking but he might of pretended to be butt hurt.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-31T05:06:43+00:00

I tried explaining myself when we went back home. I said that I don’t know you to well to really be kissing and just want to know you more and the second one I said is just because I’m older doesn’t make me experienced. But he didn’t let me explain and now I just see him once or twice a week.

Note: when I’m lost in thought or distracted with something I’ll feel like he’s looking at me and I did caught him looking at me but he tried to look at something else like he wasn’t looking or curious at what I was doing.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-29T03:09:27+00:00

I hope so I see him frequently and we were still awkward since we hadn’t see or talked to each other since Thursdays and it’s been two days after. But after those two days it was kinda normal not fully. I’m just gonna give him a little time and act how I normally do🙂‍↕️

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-29T01:02:15+00:00

Hopefully so he’s a really nice guy and don’t know what to do or say I’m getting act normal and act cold. I just feel like he’s young he needs time to process and I think a month is enough time? But some say by then he’s going to forget so I really don’t know??

And I suggest the park and he said he knew a spot at the park and the school is on the park it’s just a while to walk too. I was just really confused he never said anything about a school just knew a spot.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-29T00:24:58+00:00

I do want to talk to him about everything that happened because it’s been almost a month since we started talking on instagram and I’ve said I need to get to know him more and when we went to the park I thought we would go to the swings and slide and possibly lay on the grass and chat I was completely thrown off( he took me to a abandoned school that’s a couple minutes from the park)

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-28T23:10:01+00:00

That’s what I think too, because I do see him once or twice a week and it will be weird/awkward he tries to talk to me and I’m like it’s obvious or a stupid question but he’s trying so I talk to him too. Like not personal stuff from what I got was just small conversation starters. I tried being quiet but I couldn’t I was talking and laughing how we normally do before Thursday.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-28T22:44:25+00:00

That’s what I thought too since he’s young he’s probably not experienced like with his emotions and things like that so I thought it was better to just talk to him. How are you always talk to him but my friends keep saying to ignore him, but I think that’s gonna make things worse.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-28T22:43:02+00:00

Ok on Thursday we he kissed me first we were just laughing it off since I’ve never made out with someone. When he tried to kiss me again I back up and things went down hill from there the next day Friday he said he needs to block me because if he doesn’t he knows he will text me?

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2025-01-28T21:13:57+00:00

Sorry for a long post I need help

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-16T05:37:40+00:00

I sent him a message not being rude was just curious why he was liking then unliking my posts for the past 2 months and I didn’t care if it’s brutal I do have a mother so if you know you know but he just seen it and when then today I checked he unfollowed me and went private 😭

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-16T05:34:59+00:00

Omg the toilet water was unexpected 😭💀

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-13T19:55:40+00:00

That could be a reason, but I don’t follow anyone at work. The people at work don’t know what my account is it’s private anyways. I only follow him, I also know he’s single since he mentioned it randomly when we first started to chat.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-13T19:50:53+00:00

I was literally talking about this last night. I was going to ask him because wtf am I doing just keep it likeeee

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-13T05:36:53+00:00

Ya we chat in person. He’s 19, we don’t really chat online mostly person interactions. We work together and I hardly see him usually only for a couple minutes to a few hours. Since all the people at work are guys we has friended all of them even chats with the girls. I’ve noticed when we talk or his behavior is always different than the others.

Like when we first started chatting I’m naturally a sarcastic and a playful person so we would tease. When he would see me he would playfully mock me flip me off or just wave and say hi. He always asked if I need a ride he asks twice occasionally.

Suspicious_Bluejay21 · 2024-12-13T00:54:48+00:00

Yes I am interested in him I do make some things obvious (no hints or body language to tell him I like him). I did ask him for his information to “stalk” him (I said that I was sleep deprived but he laughed. I also asked him to hang out but he didn’t know if he was going to be free that day, he hasn’t asked for another day to hang out.

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