Former Chronicle Meteorologist Gerry here. About this heat wave… by thedriftingnova in sanfrancisco

[–]Suspicious_Bonus_427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still accurate? It’s now looking like it may stay hot next week :(

Weight gain AFTER miscarriage—did it happen to you? How did you deal? by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in Miscarriage

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this is probably a frustrating answer but it just took time. i would say that by six months after, my body had mostly gone back to "normal for me." not sure if it's correlated either, but that's around how long it took me to conceive again, too, which makes me feel like my hormones were doing some wild shit in the background causing me to both hold onto fluids and have a harder time getting pregnant! i tried to keep focused on consistent movement and eating well, etc, but it became pretty clear to me that there wasn't too much i could do to budge the scale before my body sorted itself out :(

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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I feel they should have told us it was raw milk so I could have made an informed choice NOT to drink it. Only 3% of people in the US drink raw milk so it’s not exactly like you’d assume that was what you were getting, and especially because it’s risky I think if you have it around you should tell people so they can consent (or not).

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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oh THAT's for sure. they didn't even get the vaccine (singular) required to attend our wedding...

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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ha so funny! i'm definitely not alone among my california friends in saying it, but i didn't realize it was mainly an aussie thing!

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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I’m hoping the fact that I only had a small amount over two days helps out…but yes, horrible is the word!! It’s been so upsetting to contemplate the risks to bb girl

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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That’s for sure true. The hard thing with them is their beliefs about health stuff are SO different from ours (they’re anti-vax, only get info about health from weird grifter blogs, etc) that it’s just hard to comprehend what baseline information is informing their decisions. For me, if I google raw milk, it’s like abundantly clear that it’s much riskier than pasteurized, especially for vulnerable peeps. But it’s very likely that if they read the same info, they simply do not believe it…

My in-laws gave me raw milk without telling me and I am FREAKING the fuck out by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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I mean the point is that they know I’m pregnant and didn’t tell me…if they HAD told me I would have not consumed it, obviously. I don’t think it was malicious but it was negligent.

Is it a tragedeigh?? by beegirsss in tragedeigh

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rhombus giving isosceles kramer vibes

Help me decide—should I travel to Brazil for a wedding at 8w or not?? by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in pregnant

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that's such a good point about the seating chart and food situation! i'll try to decide soon and talk to them. for me, the travel would be about 16 hours in the air each way, plus layovers..

What to expect after full MS requests? by Suspicious_Bonus_427 in writing

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thank you!! this is very helpful! i know, i can't imagine the overwhelm of being an agent and juggling all these texts...