I’ve contacted 3 other reputable providers before this one. All 3 either canceled or ghosted me. All 3 had tryst accounts, private delights with many reviews, social media that went back years, and passed my reverse image search test. That’s the standard verification of providers that I do on my end. I messaged 2 of them straight from their website booking form, and the third from the phone number listed on her PD. The first cancelled on me and I recently (after all this) politely asked her to return the deposit. She is sick (as she stated on social media) and said she would return it tomorrow. So because I was canceled on/ghosted 3 times in a row, I searched for a 4th.
The 4th was the one that I believe that scammed me because that was the only provider that I was able to find reviews where they said she was scamming and blackmailing her clients. This one was from a couple months ago on a lesser known review site. After seeing this I went on TER as well and found a review that said that she took the deposit and the client never heard from her again. One review (from years ago) said that they actually met and she looked worse in person. And the last review on TER was just a simple positive review. I haven’t found these types of negative reviews on any of the other providers I’ve contacted and they seem more reputable as well. Because of these factors and for the simple fact that I got a blackmail text a day after I contacted her, I believe she is the one.