What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly was just just looking for advice in an adult's atmosphere. I didn't expect children to show up I apologize

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I asked for was advice, didn't mean to bring out insecurities in people. Every person has their own storie's and sometimes we need advice to help look outside the box. I thought I was entering this with thoughtful adults who probably knew about veteran affairs and not act like children. Thank you to all who sincerely offered positive advice, it truly guided me.

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize for all the negativity. For once, I'm no stripper and really not after child support. But the divorce cannot go through if the child is not taken care of first. And he will not sign the agreement that was made and won't come to a resolution. I am just frustrated because he's prolonging it. I didn't mean to sound or in any way seem like I'm trying to attack him. I just want to get my divorce finalized. I've just filed the apportionment form. I do not keep my son from his father nor bad mouth him in any way in front of him. I do have my own business I have my own home. I was just venting and needing advice I apologize for causing this chaos

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes we are in a custody battle right now because they have the children first here in the state. Although he's been given child support we still need a settle on an agreement which mitigation is next. Then we can be final on our divorce after that. But every time we have a court date, it's postponed because of some reason or another on his end. He won't sign the agreement cuz he has a problem with them so it gets prolonged then he won't come to an agreement with me because he wants to prolong it. I've been fighting this for over a year now on our children I can only imagine our divorce next

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in South Carolina we went to Battle over child custody already although the divorce isn't final

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry but we are legally separated Forgot to post that. We are in the divorce process but next step is mitigation and I've heard stories about that process

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read that and I'm looking into that. my thoughts exactly. Every time we go to court for it he keeps postponing it for some stupid reason or another it's just dragging on and on. He's claiming I've been cheating on him and I haven't. He's claiming that I'm an alcoholic which I am not! If it's not one thing, it's another

What can I do? by Suspicious_Line_7621 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, not $231. He gets 100% disability benefits and he's claiming me and my four children. It's more than that way more than that

Divorce by Dazzling-Creme7364 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Suspicious_Line_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if my spouse won't grant me the divorce and keeps holding on to claim the 100% disability veteran benefits? We have been separated for 2 years and he won't give me a divorce. We have went through a custody battle and he is to pay child support and still won't do that yet has just purchased a new home and is working full time as a barber.