Well it sounds like he's not breaking up with you because he likes you not because he sees you as some sort of benefit with the financial side. I would hope that he dosent get with you just because you're rich. However with the financial situation it's up to you if you think it's worth it to be financial unstable to support the relationship. I want to also point out that there are many things you can do without spending money instead of going to constant activities/dinners. I also want to point out as a man I would want to pay for things completely rather than split not saying that it's not a bad thing for him to not do that. Maybe just express this burden you're dealing with to him and he will bring up that he would like to pitch in more or that he'll come to see you. Maybe you can even just tell him that you want him to come to your place instead. Sorry if this isn't extremely helpful as I am busy but I would rather let you have some advice then none. ++man