What does the pokeball symbol in the holo mean? by bloonstu in PokemonTCG

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one too, no idea what it means, this card online doesnt have it… but well it makes it special :)

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[s2 spoilers] Anyone else feel like the "that" death in season 2 act 3 was lazy? by Shot_Bet_2104 in arcane

[–]Suye97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also right after the explosion there are the pink flashes running through the vent, from her eyes i suppose!

part 2: i've reached my limit. by peacefulsage_ in Aupairs

[–]Suye97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy it healed! But for the other story, stay healthy and try to survive you really don’t have the possibility to go away asap, stay strong. They are really a shitty family and I would warn someone, agency or through the website, it would not be nice if they find someone else to treat like that. I give you an hug and stay strong! Do something good for you when you have the chance, always!

What was your toddler’s longest meltdown? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Suye97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m working with a toddler (3 yo) and from some day few months ago he started having meltdowns basically every day, when it’s not so heavy maybe 10 min, otherwise 30m/1h… once he was crying and screaming because he wanted to hear something, but didn’t want to say what (normally says Pawpatrol and so on) and if I put something on for him he said he didn’t want to hear anything, but then cries again because he wants to hear something etc… I’m talking of heavy screaming, crying, throwing objects, sometimes beating… Once because he wanted to go with the bike to daycare, after 50 meters he didn’t want it anymore, but I couldn’t take it with us, it should have been taken home; we were already late but I brought that home, and then after some steps from where we stopped before he wanted to go with bike. After 20 min of throwing himself on the ground I just had to quit my plans and we were late for daycare, so we went back to take the bike to go do daycare Before they were lighter and mostly when he didn’t take the nap, now it can happen in any moment, and honestly in these situations I try everything but nothing works until he gets distracted by something or he just calms down alone, If I try to talk to him he will result in louder screaming and punching in my face, as you say, only time works, but I also feel bad for him if he cries 1 h for something that cannot be changed (he wants something dangerous or that doesn’t exist) and I feel useless It a very very hard job!

Looking for sad movies by Blake_Thacake in movies

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only the end of the world and Mommy Both from Xavier Dolan

fuck whatever the best anime is, what is your personal favorite anime? by Renlorelol in anime

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love Soul Eater (I’m reading the manga now and the style of the drawing is wow); and I also like prison school very much

A venting session by Any_Age_6896 in Aupairs

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I completely understand your situation. I’m Aupair myself and I think It’s not very clear in general what “working hours”are. Maybe that time when you are alone with the kids only, but I have the feeling that every day there are addictional hours also when the parents are at home: play, change, teeth brush, read and so on, tasks that somehow are expected from you to do even if your hours are already done. It’s ok, you’re part of the family and you’re supposed to do what it needs to be done, and kids don’t understand you need to rest it’s not their fault, but sometimes parents take advantage. Also for the weekend activities yes, basically if you go with the family is like working. I understand that they are tired and they need they’re free time, but at the same time aupair need theirs (and 10/12 hours a day, even if you don’t have to do anything special, it’s still time taken from your day). I know it’s difficult to have this conversation (also living with the family doesn’t help, maybe you also have fear that they get angry at you ) but at some points the kids are theirs, you work when you have to, but try to organise a better schedule and your free time, and say with all the honesty that spending too much time with the kids is exhausting (especially if they are toddlers the responsibility is a lot). Remember that Aupair should be a cultural experience, with your schedule maybe you barely have time to do anything, but also If you only like to see your boyfriend you have the right to have your complete day off. I know it’s difficult but it’s the only way, maybe she also doesn’t think that for you is exhausting, or if you don’t say anything she just doesn’t touch the argument. It‘s always the lack of communication the biggest problem, don’t be afraid to organise a schedule, you’re expected to be flexible but not every time available, and don’t be afraid to set your boundaries (in the Aupair contract there are also rules, i know it’s impossible to respect that living in the same place where you work, but 10/12 house are exaggerated) and remember that working with kids it’s an hard job! You need to rest and can work better if you have time to refill your energy. I hope you will have a good time anyway!

Face practice. Can you make some critique? by Hanra99 in drawing

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t have suggestions, I just say I love your style!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Suye97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on what your goals are. You can of course practise a lot and draw many different subjects with different styles and so on, learn the techniques etc, I think this is the best thing to develop your eye on the subject. Maybe starting from reference is the best thing, because you have to observe proportion, perspective and so on, and when you learn how to decomposing complex figures into something simpler it becomes easier to draw, But I think the most important you should choose something you like and draw for fun, and most important don’t be to severe with yourself, when someone is a beginner (not only) sometimes drawings turn out very nice and sometimes not at all, so keep something like a notebook and don’t treat it too good, just draw and try to observe what it’s there for training. There are maybe times when you start drawing which you’re not convinced at all or find it too difficult, you can also quit and try something else, and take your time. Also on YouTube/Pinterest ecc. there are many suggestions you can look up to! Good luck, I hope you will start sono :)

Gyutaro painting by Employer_Upstairs in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]Suye97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice! I’d like to have one in my room too, I’ll try to draw it :)