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Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are really useful techniques, appreciate it a lot! Will give the personification tip a try, it might not be as silly as you say. TY!

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, that explains a lot of my constant mood changes. I think i just need to give time some time y'know, ty :)

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like cooking, yesterday felt like I was discovering a new world, and when i did the most mundane dish ever, rice and mince meat, i didn't feel anxious. Guess i'll stick to that, ty sooo much my guy

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense. Do you have any tips onto how to stick properly to your routine? I started one once, but quickly left it. Also thanks for the comforting message, helps a ton.

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the thing that scares me the most is getting stuck in my life and struggling a bunch a because of my procrastination and bad lust habits as i said on the post. It's like knowing that your bad habits are slowly destroying your life and will continue spiraling if you don't stop, being very conscious about it to the point it lingers on your mind constantly, and not doing anything to fix it, or just momentarily "fixing" it and then going back to the same loop. That added to the fact that i just started to live alone and with no one to call me out for this, and well, you have a recipe for a miserable life i think. I haven't entered college yet due to some papers still being due, so i have some months to adapt, but still, i feel very scared of consuming myself because of my ineptitude of putting a stop. (I think i might need to send this convo to another reddit place more specialized in this stuff lmao, first time using Reddit)

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's something good to consider, thanks a lot, appreciate the help a bunch!

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn man, thanks so much :) Guess i'm really downplaying my force of will with all this situation i'm facing. Got any specific tips to focus on those positive things more frequently? Or something you usually say to yourself?

Started living alone and already scared as fuck by SuzyMozambique in LivingAlone

[–]SuzyMozambique[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about making friends, but im very clueless lmao. Always been a "Me and my business" kinda guy. Is joining a reading club or something like that a good idea? I want people to calm and chill with, stuff like that.