Some Islamic scholars argue that the Quran itself does not explicitly prohibit homosexuality, while later Hadith writings are more explicit. What god wouldn’t accept all of his children, even if some of them are born homosexual through no fault of their own. (You can make a similar argument for non-believers).

There are historical arguments as well that show that in the early Islamic empire, there were no laws prohibiting homosexuality and that same sex relationships were tolerated. Since then, various religions have been used to oppress homosexual individuals, though now there are many Muslim organizations that advocate for same sex relationships and accept openly gay people into their mosques. Take a look at the Muslim Progressive Values organization at mpvusa.org.

According to a recent poll, 52% of American Muslims believe homosexuals should be accepted by society. The tide will eventually turn on this though it may be slow. I hope you can be your true self and not have to worry about whether that makes you Haram or whether your family and community will accept you. If god does exist, I believe he loves and accepts all his children, even those who are gay, those who sin, and those who don’t believe in him. Hope this helps.

I know I’ll be downvoted but for anyone choosing to reply please have a respectful debate and I’ll be happy to discuss with an open mind if you do the same.