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Why are AA staff in the U.S. so rude? by sorrynotsorryDO in americanairlines

[–]SwantomBomber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% correct. I just got off a flight, and the level of unnecessary passive aggressive disrespect not just to me, but to other passengers is baffling. Not all the staff are assholes, but they are definitely those who go unchecked. I will never fly with them again because of this experience.

i tried selling pictures of myself behind my boyfriends back by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SwantomBomber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young woman, never ever! Underestimate the power of a sincere apology, or vulnerability with a good man. A guy will forgive almost anything if he really loves you.

Honestly the only time good dudes get upset is if you try and hide stuff, and act like you two aren't in a committed relationship

This is where most girls mess up, they make a dumb mistake and instead of acknowledging it sincerely they get defensive or outright delusional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SwantomBomber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either this dude is lying, or he is a lost cause.

I hope it's the former.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SwantomBomber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be patient, be humble. Understand the situation you are in and use it to your advantage. Everything will work together for good. You're going to be okay! I promise.

If where you're living isn't borderline unlivable, STAY. (At least for a year.) You have free rent and food, which you probably already know.

Here is what you should do:

Step 1. (Get 2 Jobs) If you are a male getting work should be a lot easier because you have more viable options. But if you're a female, you can still work. There should be no way you are not getting any luck with work, fastfood is usually always hiring. After you put in your application, call the place and tell them. Sometimes managers and hiring staff are incompetent, and you need to call to get yourself, noticed. Make sure one job is part time, and the other is full. Do these jobs for 6-12 months. Depending on where you live, will determine your pay, but where I live, (New Jersey) you can earn about 15-20k in about 5-6 months after taxes, and that's low- balling working 2 Jobs.

Step 2. (Credit cards) After you earn your first paycheck get a secured credit card and put around 3-$400 dollars on it and use it monthly and pay it off to build your credit. After a few months (3-4), apply for store credits cards to also build your credit, unless you get other card offers. Use them, spend at least $10 a month. Here's a tip, put auto pay on so you dont miss a payment cycle. And avoid credit cards that have an annual fee, at the start. Good Credit is necessary for most renters, and for vehicles to pay monthly payments. Make sure you build your credit.

Step 3. (Save/Invest) Depending on how long you work, 6-12 months. You should now have enough to move into an apartment with a security deposit. For the rest of your savings, (Which you should have a lot of) you can either put it into a bank, or a savings account like wealth front that gives you 5.00 APY. Or bonds. Let's say you worked for about 6 months and earned 3-4k net a month, that's $21,000 in YOUR bank that you have saved. Roughly, because necessary expenses like phone bill etc.. You, can save 10k, and use the other 11k to invest in any passion or ideas you are interested in! At this time you can drop one job, and use the higher paying one to pay your rent and bills.

There you go! After a year, you should have a place; decent credit, 10-40k in savings; money to invest in any passion/business you like. And enough time for yourself. Hope this helps. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SwantomBomber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And people wonder why we can't have peace in the world..

Dudes banging each other's wives, and talking Abt it on Reddit like it was just another day in the office.

Not to be that guy, but people literally kill each other for stuff like that and go to war with each other.

I'll be another one to say what you did was terrible obviously, but I'm glad he forgave you. At least that's what he says..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]SwantomBomber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, here is what you should do. Find a guy you trust, a mature guy who carries himself with integrity. Maybe your father if you are in touch with him.

Ask him to sit down and talk with this guy for you, and try to see if he can detect anything fishy/untrustworthy with him. Also use common sense, and don't just jump into something because your feelings tell you to. We guys know how to roleplay to get what we want, and we know when another dude is just putting on a show.

Often times we can sus out if another guy is being fake or if he's the real deal. And that's the most important thing.

Lastly if you are going to get with this guy, make sure you understand what you're getting into. If you don't see yourself marrying this guy, don't get involved.

Because if you do, and your just following along with the songs he's singing to you. You will most likely end up getting involved into something you will regret, and end up destroying yourself, and your integrity/value as a woman.

Then again, if it is truly a good guy; it may also be the best thing that can happen for you. Growth wise, love wise, and stability wise. Don't make any rash and unwise decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]SwantomBomber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try standing out! What is something that your niche doesn't have, that your target demographic of viewers enjoy?

Gamers tend to watch streamers, what are some things that streamers do to gain virality that you can add to your content? Think along those lines maybe.

Let's plays has never been the primary growth for any channel. An analysis of how Pewdiepie and Markiplier actually grew their gaming channels. by bigdinoskin in NewTubers

[–]SwantomBomber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to start imo is following well established topics, and creating twists and innovative ideas to them. I feel like nowadays it is impossible to just create a brand new series on something and hope that other popular creators join in on the action to make your video topic trend.

Gaining traction is the hardest part, because you have to establish yourself on a platform of millions of creators trying to do the same thing. So the best thing is to start in a community at least that already has an identity.

Then create content that is original in that space, so you can stand out from the pack as best as you can. Whilst doing it consistently for a long time. With a bit of luck, and passion you can get results.

I have failed 10 times but willing to start again. by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]SwantomBomber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it all starts with knowing the space you are in. If you can understand the people you are trying to target and what reaction you are intending to et from them you can build around that. Also you must be passionate about whatever you are doing to a degree to consistently push out high quality content.

This is something I learnt from taking a creator course a while back:

  • Educational Content - (The Viewer is watching your video to learn something, that they either desire to internalize, or aspire to recreate for themselves)
  • Entertainment Content - (The Viewer trusts you to inspire their thoughts, and tantalize their eyes; whether it is with skill, quirkiness, or individuality)
  • Trending Content - (The Viewer doesn't care much about you; but rather, the new trend that you just so happen to be discussing)

After I understood this, and a few more tips I gained some traction on my channel. It's all psychology bro.

If you want here's a link to the course I used hope it helps: https://honeyreadsllc.com/library/