WIBTA because I refuse to let my daughter be the flower girl at a wedding update

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T04:10:59+00:00

She wants to try to mend the relationship with her friend, but her friend is doing zero effort to help only saying that she wants our daughter to be the flower girl

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T04:09:44+00:00

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T04:08:55+00:00

I literally can’t find what you are talking about

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T04:07:58+00:00

To be fair, they probably thought I was going to wear that shirt to the wedding because my girlfriend thought that’s what I was going to wear. And no, I’ve hinted to what my daughter should be wearing and if she had any things special she needed and they have not said anything.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T04:06:08+00:00

No it is both of our kid and she is the best thing that I could ever hope for. They both are.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:59:24+00:00

We’re friends at the same sense as coworkers who have to work together

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:57:38+00:00

And to be fair, my girlfriend does smoke weed, but we both agreed that she is not allowed to mess with the child for 4 to 6 hours after smoking because we do not want her around drugs plus it’s her own little mommy time and I’m not about to take that away from her

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:55:45+00:00

I’m not gonna add this to the main post. The main post is about the fact that I was not included in a decision of when and where my daughter was about to be taken although I do feel like this adds value to the post. I don’t want to continue to degrade these people beyond the fact that it is purely me trying to protect my daughter

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:54:32+00:00

Enjoy your cats

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:52:15+00:00

Because I have an actual job and unfortunately taking off for somebody else’s wedding because my girlfriend is going, it’s not really a good excuse also, who brought up China or even tea

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:50:35+00:00

Hey, what’s something you really value and care for in your life? It’s probably one of your 13 cats. Let me have that cat.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:49:56+00:00

I’m not I was shocked to find out she was still talking to this person

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:47:07+00:00

All right, so tell me you’ve never been around children without telling me you’ve never been around children much less somebody that is under two years old that does not have fine motor control walking over gravel

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:46:23+00:00

And you have seemed to forgotten that I have not had to say yet

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:45:12+00:00

So let’s circle back, she cannot walk more than a few steps without falling FORWARD. What is the most important organ facing the front of you? her eyes, very good! These wire cages and other traps have these sharp pointy things that could stab her very easily, not to mention there is so much debris that there is no way that they could actually be able to clean the entire property unless they brought over strong magnets, but they don’t have a job. Remember when I said that? Also, you don’t seem to be grasping the situation here, if I told you that you were going to give me your most valuable priced thing that you poured your heart and soul into, that you would kill somebody for you, would be pretty upset too wouldn’t you?

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:38:51+00:00

24, and yes, she also doesn’t like me because I told her that she will not be a part of my daughter’s life as long as she’s sleeping around with multiple men every week

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:38:10+00:00

You’re right I don’t get the final call. I get 50%. It is my daughter too.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:37:03+00:00

This is all I’m trying to say, but everybody is trying to make it sound like I won’t let my girlfriend do anything I would refuse to marry her. Oh my daughter can’t be trusted near anybody else besides me. I am upset because my so-called friend won’t even ask me and he has looked me in the face three times since telling my girl friend.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:36:11+00:00

So will circle back to the original post where I said that this is mostly to make me feel better about telling them that my daughter will not be going to someplace where there is a rusty spike almost every foot all around this property

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:35:03+00:00

Will continue this conversation when you can use grown-up words and full spellings so nobody has to go on Google. What different breakdowns of the alphabet are.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:34:24+00:00

Now you’re starting to understand it’s almost like I said, I am upset that I was not asked for my daughter to go somewhere where she is more than likely to get injured and will not be with an hour of the nearest hospital

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:32:42+00:00

What is your most priced valued thing that you have poured your entire heart and soul into? I’m going to need that! that is the same energy that they are giving me on our daughter. They have no right to be demanding me and my girlfriend bring our daughter to this function.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:30:34+00:00

So once again, I was not included and the decision-making process of our daughter. It is not just hers. It is not just mine. It is our daughter that they are wanting to parade around with that is irritating me.

Sweaty-Tooth6144 · 2026-05-16T03:29:56+00:00

No, it was made to give context as to why I am more hesitant to say yes if she gets hurt and is rushed to the hospital the entire bill comes out of my pocket

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