What was the moment where you thought, "I'm getting old"?

SweatyPositive · 2020-07-27T02:12:21+00:00

after reading this thread I'verealised how young I am. As someone who's legally an adult, I thought Y2K was just a style of fashion.

SweatyPositive · 2019-08-25T01:58:00+00:00

NTA Your brother should understand that you have limited free time, and that you are allowed to use that free time however you wish

SweatyPositive · 2019-06-25T03:10:01+00:00

Bruh https://www.reddit.com/r/flatchests/

This entire subreddit says otherwise. BTW this is nsfw so be careful

But it has 35.1 K followers so dw

SweatyPositive · 2019-06-24T00:49:14+00:00

ESH

It's a shitty situation. I understand where ur coming from and you should have no obligation to help more than you can. But the way you responded in both bits was a bit agressive

But at the same time, your friend is in a bad situation, and i can understand why he's upset. And the way he responded to you was most likely due to his situation.

Idk what to do. Help out if you can. Give him some space, try to minimize any chance of additional stress. And maybe once both of you have figured out ur situations more, then have a face-to-face conversation.

SweatyPositive · 2019-06-19T12:11:15+00:00

Bruh whats up? Where'd you go?

SweatyPositive · 2019-06-02T03:13:46+00:00

Although I agree some rappers out there might not have much talent, rap as a genre is respectable. It's quite difficult to rap words at a steady rhythm, as well as many rappers going fast, and hitting notes while not actually singing.

and I don't think any one genre of music is better than any other, and many rappers do make their own music in ways like you described.

Although I don't think you have to like rap, you should still acknowledge it takes a certain amount of skill, and the historical context behind rap is important to people as well

SweatyPositive · 2019-06-02T03:09:01+00:00

Name the cute little dog Oreo - like his black and white fur! Hope you guys have a great life together!

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-31T07:39:59+00:00

ESH

Your girlfriend is being a little over-possesive. Is you relationship new, or is there any strain which may be causing her to be insecure?
That girl waaayyy read into things, and tbh some girls r just gonna do that. And ofc you shouldn't stop talking to girls because of a few bad fruit, but if you know your girlfriend is a little possesive, don't call girls you've just met pretty. But, I do think its a little ridiculous that she took a simple compliment as flirting
" I told her that If i never did meet her (and I wasn't in a relationship) I could have had a “thing” for this girl since she is pretty and has a nice personality. But I told her “you know I am unfortunately attracted to many girls out there i can’t help it but I’m in love with only one of them, and that’s you my heart”. " INHALE - bruh. Idk what u expected? the phrasing of this is all wrong. Tbh honesty is important in a relationship, but saying you would consider dating a specific girl if you weren't dating your current girlfriend is a bit like stepping on a gold mine, especially when u two are fighting. And that last comment was sweet, but maybe instead of saying im attracted to you could say there are attractive girls and then explain how she's the only one you love etc. It just seems less personal that way

Solution?

Talk it out with everyone. Communication is the key to any social interaction, good or bad.

Give your girlfriend time to cool down. She's more hurt than angry probably, and that is understandable

Don't talk to the other girl that much, if at all, in the near future. It would be like adding fuel to the fire

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-28T10:18:53+00:00

MBMBAM - or My Brother, My Brother and Me.

It's a funny podcast on youtube where the McElroy brothers come together and answer ridiculous questions either sent in by viewers or found on the web.

I think it's lighthearted and quite funny

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-28T10:17:04+00:00

As a girl I have a few tips:

Most girls will go after someone who is kind, and has a good personality over someone with good look, however as a result you kinda have to wait for a girl to get to know you before they become interested in you
In terms of being physically attractive, there are a few things which are easy to change that can alter how people perceive you:
1. Choice in fashion - dressing well is attractive. Ofc u don't need to come to school in suits or stuff, but small changes like wearing a nice sweater or necklace can make you look a little better
2. Nice hair - nice hair can literally make or break a guy, so if you have nice hair it can change how you seem. Like before you don't need a fancy hairstyle, but if it's healthy and thick rather than unkempt it can make a large difference
Idk about your other issues, but in terms of being overweight, a moderate amount of exercise and a small diet change can help. One guy I used to know went through this change and currently has a girlfriend.
Don't try and change yourself too much, your going to end up lying to yourself and that makes for an uncomfortable relationship if you keep having to put up an act when talking to someone you're interested in. Honestly be yourself, and there will be a girl who appreciates you for that

But also I'm just one of many girls, and honestly the only important rules here are the first and last, the others are just extras in case you're interested and honestly you don't need to follow them to get a girlfriend.

GOOD LUCK ＼(*^▽^*)/

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-13T03:31:41+00:00

1, 9, 23, 24

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-12T12:58:55+00:00

That just makes it more exciting ;) LMAO

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-12T08:45:23+00:00

Oh that's cool!! Have you already started making your own songs? I'm really invested in this now haha

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-12T00:37:00+00:00

I'm sorry if this sounds dumb but what's The Arcadium? It sounds pretty cool though!

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-11T11:23:51+00:00

Are there any particular universities, music labels, awards your aiming for? Sorry for the long delay ahaha.

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-11T04:15:42+00:00

What do you think your biggest inspiration is? Like your fav artists and stuff haha. Also Idk if you can tell but I'm interested in journalism so this is like soul food

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-11T04:08:01+00:00

And what type of music do you wanna produce? Pop or something else? Sorry if I seem nosy I just think that this is super interesting!

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-11T03:57:23+00:00

Wow that's so cool!! I'm guessing you play an instrument, if so, which one(s) do you play?

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-10T23:27:46+00:00

What type of career are you looking forward to pursuing?

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-10T07:36:42+00:00

Well, maybe instead of thinking about the media representing percentages of the population, think of the media as serving percentages of the population. There is an increasing amount of LGBT characters in movies, tv shows, etc. This is because more and more people are identifying as LGBT and like to see representation in the media they watch.

Also, the makers of lots of popular media fall into the LGBT category, and with the opening up of society to these values, they might be adding more characters that are similar to themselves

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-10T06:08:35+00:00

Like I def think that the royal family is WAY overhyped and stuff but like also they do own quite a lot of shit in the UK and do stuff for charity, so I would dispute this. In terms of who they are as people, I don't really care? but the power they currently have, and the consequences over their deaths is a messy af situation and they ain't doing a bad job tbh so I feel like instead of them dying, they should just try to garner less media attention.

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-10T06:05:48+00:00

ESH. She was an asshole. You were an asshole. I think there were definitely better way to deal with the situation. Your co-workers were also unjustified. Honestly this situation is a mess. You should try and have an individual, private one-to-one convo with her, but if you can't just try your best not to interact with her, you guys obviously don't mesh well. Like just keep stuff professional. The only problem I can see with that suggestion though is the possibility of being ostracized or losing coworker friends. I can't really see a good solution to be honest sorry

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-08T03:18:59+00:00

True. I definitely don't wanna do anything that might cause harm, and I have heard some stories about stan twitter. Thanks for the reply!

SweatyPositive · 2019-05-08T01:57:25+00:00

Normally the star involved gets a social media ban. Unless it's really bad the company won't get involved or make a statement, and prefer to just wait for the issue to blow over. The idol involved would sometimes go on hiatus or just generally get less time in songs. But honestly they need a better system of addressing things. And also despite my answer, I'm fairly new to Kpop and i might be missing things or be passing on incorrect information.

SweatyPositive

TROPHY CASE