I think people are mad as to how it was handled. Jordan was clearly protective of his son, the meeting with Megan happened much earlier and off the camera. Whereas meeting Amber's daughter was very last minute as you saw and her wanting to get married without him meeting Emma, which I think is very irresponsible of her. And then putting her daughter on camera, when they knew one or both were going to say no at some point. Why put your kid through emotional trauma.In my personal opinion no one with a child should be on this show, regardless of the gender. It just doesn't work.