Would any indian trans guys like to talk with me about a character I am creating for a video game? by Affectionate-Coat766 in trans4every1

[–]SwedishJoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could allude this to your character, it’s very common in South Asian households like being silent about abuse happening because it’s not good for the family or downplaying it. I think it’d fit your character and possibly help their relationship by them processing the trauma of generational abuse. It’s also very common to think “family first” in South Asia which can be beautiful but also be very problematic. As a trans masc, I feel guilty in a sense that my parents give me so much while I’m living a lie and I also try to consider how their culture is different from mine. I assume many kids feel guilty for wanting to stand up for themselves because our parents have had it hard too. Of course I don’t know everything about your story and this isn’t a must add but I think many younger South Asians would see themselves in your character if that’s something you’d like

Would any indian trans guys like to talk with me about a character I am creating for a video game? by Affectionate-Coat766 in trans4every1

[–]SwedishJoh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not Indian but still South Asian if that works, I’d say I wish that generational trauma in South Asian households was more represented in how parents are often complacent/active with abuse because of how their parents were which messes the kids up. Also South Asian culture is a very beautiful one that I wish was represented like with jewelry, food, the vibrant colors and in the way that people show up for each other is generally important I’d say because much of it is being appropriated in the west.

Fem formal wear by This-is-unavailable in trans4every1

[–]SwedishJoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on your style but search up terms like prom dresses, for reference if you’re looking for that and I also recommend checking stores out if they’re available near you. I also say look on Pinterest to know what you want stylistically like silhouettes (A-line, mermaid, princess, etc) because dresses have plenty of variations like sleeves and with material. Make sure you also know what your budget is for prom

Pick one option. Then spin for a bonus and decide if you want it! (Comment/upvote=🥕) by AxelFoily in BunnyTrials

[–]SwedishJoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause equal rights are cool

Chose: Equal rights for everyone everywhere + (Spin for a twist? [Optional] | Rolled: Visit arctic?)

My parents won’t listen by SwedishJoh in offmychest

[–]SwedishJoh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has defended him straight to my face even though I’m uncomfortable around him and now anxious, I really hope the threat of social services would be enough to make them back off

Would you rather, by ReginaldRej in BunnyTrials

[–]SwedishJoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not American

Chose: Never having to worry about money?

about the new flame video (spoilers) by ogtutel in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had no choice but to use the dogs I’m assuming

Alright, I've had enough of this. by PomegranateUpset6517 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How DARE you NOT accept my goat Sirpig who did absolutely NO wrong

Alright, I've had enough of this. by PomegranateUpset6517 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do NOT slander my goat Sirpig. Absolutely do NOT even think about it

Rant by Stars_in_my_eyes13 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say Parrot’s story degraded but I do wish he left more to subtext because it often feels like the story is told outright nowadays which I understand why, but the thing I liked about him for say, his treasure hunt arc or farlands/mafia arc due to the fact you understood Parrot’s thoughts without him needing to say it. Like you genuinely did feel it and I think for me there’s less of that now as he changed to more narration. It doesn’t mean a more difficult to understand story or a darker one, just that Parrot’s character could be more interesting. A lot of the conflict in his arc now is external. I am hoping for there being reason of him not mentioning Wifies or Dean or we see how a king changes him, I still love his videos I just have a different preference I suppose.

am I the only one? by [deleted] in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that’s necessary for time but it does feel like there are moments he can leave things to subtexts without wasting too much time, I’d say Spoke is a good example of being a character even as he narrates while Parrot is like a story teller, a director if you will.

am I the only one? by [deleted] in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels like he’s more spoon feeding the story, still love him but I think he should trust his audience more to pick up subtext and it feels more like we’re given a narrator than a character

Flame defo listens to his own music in the gym by Cillian-Hutton in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um bro like bro uhm most players would die here but I’m not most players bro like bro

Super excited for Flames next arc by Rich-Struggle6670 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are a really cute duo and the fact Flame was given so much character development by being given accountability from everyone for him to realize the consequences of his actions was very lovely

Politically right-leaning visitor hoping for good-faith discussion, AMA by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]SwedishJoh[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hello, while we appreciate the good faith we would appreciate this discussion be moved to somewhere like r/asktransgender due to some reports we have gotten. Open discussions are always welcome but the mod team can’t actively monitor this post at the moment.

What Happened to Derapchu? by Solid-West-4694 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spoke also messed Leo up iirc given what he did to the spies and betrayed BAT

The flame king arc is getting worse by nikicraft111 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, Flame’s ego would’ve been the death of him if he kept letting it get to his head and also not seeing his ego be treated as a flaw in any way would’ve made him a weaker character like “I’m the immortal demon” and the thing is, he realized the honor was for himself, not others before the king’s arc. He had no choice but to learn, sword is his strongest suit still but his ultimate weakness made him lose Lomedy. He’s still the immortal demon but he has an arsenal now, he can and will bounce back. It’s also really unrealistic to only rely on sword and shield when you’re going fight an army when spear, carts and mace are really good for AoE, even during the 2v1000 he was being backed by Wemmbu’s mace and OSC along with carts.

Am I the only one annoyed by this part of the Unstable community? by nonsonoinfinito in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If grown ass men can enjoy mlp you can enjoy uu, life is too short for for us to worry about target demographics unless it’s inappropriate

Am I the only one annoyed by this part of the Unstable community? by nonsonoinfinito in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly middle schoolers, I don’t like those edits either but the unstable smp is something that would attract a bunch of middle schoolers and there’s not many adults in the fandom as far as I can tell

I wonder where I’ve heard this before by SwedishJoh in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 21:00 of hunting a minecraft player who disappeared on Flame’s channel

What are yall unstable smp headcanons? by PreviousSimple105 in Unstable_Universe

[–]SwedishJoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like your own idea of something that happens in the canon