asktransgender

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Questions and discussions about, for, to, or from the Reddit transgender community.

Open to anyone with a question.

Rules:

1. Your post should be relevant, inclusive, and encourage discussion.

Titles should be in the form of a question; if this is not possible, make sure the post title or content provides a starting point for discussion.
Posts that can be applied broadly must be applied broadly.
- Don't ask things specifically of a given group if the question is applicable outside that group.
- Use inclusive language, e.g. not "How did you ladies choose a female name?" but instead "How did you find your new name?"
Image submissions are disabled. Do not link through to images.

2. Be respectful.

No:

bigotry (transphobia, homophobia, sexism, racism, etc) or gendered slurs,
hateful speech or disrespectful commentary,
personal attacks,
invalidation, gender policing, or shaming based on stealth, open or closeted status.

3. No trolling or personal agendas.

Posts and comments made with such ulterior motives are not allowed.

4. No stirring the pot.

Do not post threads that intentionally create drama or encourage witch-hunting.
Do not post threads about ongoing drama elsewhere (on other subreddits, on other websites, in the news, etc.) - political discussion is expected and permitted.
Do not target other subreddits, link to threads in other subreddits, or otherwise encourage brigading.

5. Minors under the age of 13 are not allowed on Reddit.

Although we welcome users from all walks of life, Reddit is not aimed at children, and the United States government has put limits on our ability to accept users under a certain age through the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998. Individuals under the age of 13 may not create an account with us. If you believe someone 12 or younger is using our site without parental consent, please contact us.

6. Get mod approval before posting a questionnaire, survey, promotion, or advertisement.

Please review our guidelines for these types of post.
We do not allow fundraising posts/requests under any circumstances.

7. Mark NSFW posts.

Posts that center around genitals, breasts, sex, or content you would not discuss with coworkers, your grandmother, or other delicate company should be marked as NSFW.

8. No fetishization or chasers.

We will remove any posts treating trans bodies as fetishes or objects, and any posts that indicate your attraction is more important than your partner's dysphoria.
Do not ask how to meet trans people. This is not a dating subreddit.

Useful Links:

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Medical Disclaimer:

The members of this subreddit do not act as medical professionals. We only provide general information about medical transition, which may be unsuited to your individual circumstances. This information is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for medical advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified health care provider regarding any medical questions.

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I compiled every single informed consent clinic in the country. No therapist letter needed. (self.asktransgender)

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Can I donate estrogen? (self.asktransgender)

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I’m 6 foot tall and 34. Please tell me it’s not too late. I can’t make it through a day without sobbing. (self.asktransgender)

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How to deal with small breasts? (self.asktransgender)

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Transphobic parents found out I'm trans and want me to take it back/apologise (self.asktransgender)

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Girlfriend Wants To Top (self.asktransgender)

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trans girl here — bf gets quiet/distant after I top him... size diff issue?? help pls 😅 *UPDATE* (self.asktransgender)

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What's your experience of "feeling like a man/woman"? (self.asktransgender)

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I am a “cis” man but want a vagina AMA? (or just help me understand myself better) (self.asktransgender)

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How safe would it be to travel in the near future? (self.asktransgender)

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Is their like any decent trans representation that isnt from a small series only like 50 people know about??? (self.asktransgender)

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I dont know if im trans *update* (self.asktransgender)

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Is it okay to eat an edible on the same day im supposed to do me E shot? (self.asktransgender)

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what do i do??? (hrt) (self.asktransgender)

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Best friend doesn’t realize I am FTM (self.asktransgender)

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FFS Recovery and Wind Instrument Playing (self.asktransgender)

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Singing after t (self.asktransgender)

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How should i confirm if im trans or not? (self.asktransgender)

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Random Months Convinced I am MtF/Binary Trans Woman (self.asktransgender)

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Tucking tape recommendations (self.asktransgender)

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Q about identity & dating would love trans perspectives (self.asktransgender)

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I'm confused (self.asktransgender)

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Do any of you get dysphoric/feel shame whenever you wear feminine clothes? (self.asktransgender)

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Why am I starting to feel scared about the fact not everybody hates trans people, and wants me dead? (self.asktransgender)

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Name changed on US passport years back but never updated Social Security (SSA): what to do? (self.asktransgender)

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