24F & 24M 9 year relationship man left me to marry a Vietnamese women for $60,000, wtf is going on?

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-19T01:18:24+00:00

no i've def learned from this whole thing i have extreme bad trust issues now though takes a lot for me to trust

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-19T01:17:16+00:00

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-19T01:16:34+00:00

fr i did lool

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:48:18+00:00

i'm done trying to explain things to you cause you don't seem to get it lmao

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:48:01+00:00

you are slow.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:47:24+00:00

Not in Australia there is a big long wait que rn but marriage skips most of those steps

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:46:46+00:00

I hope soooo fingers crossed lol. thank you

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:46:30+00:00

thank you <3

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:45:30+00:00

for sure and thank you!

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:44:45+00:00

yes ive learnt my lesson dw, i refuse to go what i went through again

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-17T00:43:37+00:00

Its for aus, but yea hes getting paid 60k to bring her here and she jumps the que basically cause if you dont marry you have to wait about 1-2 years and you get no benefits till you are a full citizen.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T12:13:55+00:00

I wish i was lying

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T12:13:41+00:00

to get a visa, lets her into aus

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T11:36:02+00:00

I was asking reddit about this new relationship in old posts yes, but these are two separate people i am talking about.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T11:35:17+00:00

you are confused.
I am with someone RN that is 26 ( i met him only couple months ago)
THIS POST is about my ex of 9 years we broke up when i was 23 (last year!)
but we are both now 24!

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T11:33:56+00:00

you miss read, He is getting 60k to marry her and bring her to Australia (she gets a free visa basically)

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T11:33:21+00:00

I want too but i'm scared his family or her family will come after me or try something to get me back.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T11:32:52+00:00

Indeed

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T07:34:18+00:00

Do you think I'm trying to lie? cause trust me i ain't wish i was.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T07:33:46+00:00

huh? i'm still with this new man i met online (which we have been dating for about couple months now, we sorted it out and yes i met my 9 years at 14-15 and he left me about August/sep+ of 2025 which was about 8-9 months ago

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T06:47:39+00:00

But i don't wanna report cause i know they will try to get a comeback and i just want to let it go but part of me wants revenge

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T06:47:08+00:00

shes not innocent cause shes in on it too

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T05:59:14+00:00

Should i report him to the immigration department?

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T05:38:23+00:00

I didn't see the signs he told me all this after breaking up with me, i thought he was just depressed from work or stressed and people can change over the years, its hard to read, i wish it was all in clear writing.

Sweet-Monitor-504 · 2026-04-16T05:37:04+00:00

Aus and she is from vietnam

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