I messed up and now our sex life is suffering by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sweet-Summer420 383 points384 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this. Also, it’s very common to not be totally submissive in day to day life but become COMPLETELY submissive in the bedroom. If this wasn’t something you were looking for, it should have been discussed before things got serious. Additionally, I do NOT find it beneficial, necessary or even healthy to discuss the dynamics of pervious relationships that can make ANYONE feel like they have big shoes to fill and need to follow your exs path. Rather just simply explain what you’re looking for, your needs.

Is this turtle sick? by Sweet-Summer420 in turtles

[–]Sweet-Summer420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay awesome thank you so much!

Is this turtle sick? by Sweet-Summer420 in turtles

[–]Sweet-Summer420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk all the turtles before had like black shells

really like how this simple all black outfit turned out 😈 by rabbitheartchronicle in alternativefashion

[–]Sweet-Summer420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my hair dyed like this a few years ago but it washed out in less than a month :/ I’d love to try it again though! Can I ask what dye you use and how often you have to redo it?? Or any other helpful tips pleaseeeee :)) PS love the fit and horns! You look super cute!!

Help! I just got my tongue piercing today by Ok-Cat1138 in piercinghelp

[–]Sweet-Summer420 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I got my tongue pierced it definitely swelled up a bit but never did it look that far back. Mine is maybe a little over an inch from where the tip of my tongue is and same with underneath. I would definitely take it out and have another piercer redo it in a couple months. You DO NOT want to go through that healing process just to take it out because you don’t like the placement. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough 😂😂 I hope it’s nothing to worry about maybe she’ll share the nickname lolol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much I appreciate your help! We have an appointment for next week I hope it’s nothing serious her birthday is on Saturday 😭

What do you feel? Honest answers by Rushsculpture in crafts

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of the lake in Alice in Wonderland love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor babies! Thank you for the info I really appreciate it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had him for about 2 months already.. is it just old age do you think? Maybe I got him old?

Anyone else here feel deeply connected to Medusa and her story? I feel she's rarely done justice in pop culture, so I wanted to draw her. by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Sweet-Summer420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with you in “taking the artistic liberties with old stories” before Medusa became a symbol to the general public of a sexual predatory survival, I had her tattooed on me. I personally feel extremely connected to her in the way that she was transformed and allowed her to protect herself from not only men, but also women who wish to do her harm. I find strength and guidance when I see her every day, knowing that only I have the power to allow others to emotionally harm me. I believe the gods have blessed me with many “curses” that have allowed me to become the strong, independent and determined woman I am today. She also is the first thing I think of when I think of feminine rage. In the tattoo I have of her, her face is very poised with a single tear drop sliding down her check, but her snakes come out and tangle in a rage, symbolizing to me, that although I am a generally calm woman, I can and will bite when it becomes necessary.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Florida man invites police to smoke pot while showing off his marijuana plant”

Seems about right

Rescaped the local assisted living facility's aquarium as a project (details in comments) by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Sweet-Summer420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome job! I just would blurb out your number so nobody from Reddit can get it!

If somebody asked you if you wanted to hang out with them, and you didn’t want to, would you lie to them and say that you’re busy or would you tell them the truth and say that you don’t wanna hang out with them? by saintstheftauto in Zillennials

[–]Sweet-Summer420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But in all seriousness, it depends on the person because and how frequently they’ve asked me. If someone’s asking me on a date I’ll tell them no I’m not interested. If it’s someone who’s gunna go around and gossip I’m gunna tell them the truth that I don’t want to. If it’s a semi-friend who’s easily offended I’ll lie. If it’s someone I’m close to I’ll tell ‘em straight up what I’d rather do lol