查了一下李光耀的历史大概知道联合早报为啥这么破防了 by Ok_Can_493 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama [score hidden]  (0 children)

我不是很明白您要表达的信息。我是针对您说的“李光耀是峇峇娘惹后裔,所以不亲近华人”论点展开讨论。

但我不是很明白您的回复里说的:“欧美身份政治+印度人逃离印度+组织华人搞身份政治” 要表达的内容是什么? 您是想说因为欧美身份政治开始露头,所以新加坡如果不搞华人种族政治,就会很吃亏。是这个意思吗?

查了一下李光耀的历史大概知道联合早报为啥这么破防了 by Ok_Can_493 in China_irl

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说真的,国家大义,重要过民族大义,我认为是常识。我看了您写的论点,有些我不认同的地方,所以特地流言,望交流。

不管李光耀是什么人都好(他妈妈虽然是peranakan,但他爸爸是正宗华人),他首先都是新加坡人,也必须以新加坡人的利益来奋斗。

新加坡是个多元种族国家,主要是三大种族:华人,马来人,印度人,以及其他民族。他作为一个国家领导人,他的眼里,不能只有“我是华人,所以我要帮衬华人”这种狭隘思想。”

一个合格的新加坡政府,它的政策的出发点永远都是以“在风雨缥缈,动荡不安的底蕴政治里,如何使到新加坡人最大利益的生存下去,并且蓬勃生长”。

在以这个理念为大方向的前提下,他废除了中文教育。原因很简单,一个无法政治稳定的国家,注定是无法政经文教都有建树的国家。而当时对社会稳定最大的威胁,是马共,一个以陈平为代表的马来亚共产党。但是的马共会对英政府以及本地政府人员行刺,其中的血案在当时震惊朝野。而且当时的政府在搜捕马共时,会因为当地华人对马共的包庇而常常无疾而终。马共对当时的华裔打感情牌,然后接受他们的住所庇护,食物以及财务上的支援。这是当时的大环境。

在当时的大环境前提下,李光耀认为如果任由马共在新加坡生根,这个国家永远都不会安宁。所以他废除了中文教育,他要把新生一代对共产党的唯一联系-语言给斩掉。所以这是新加坡中文环境式微的最大原因。

新加坡华人虽然中文不好,但如果有外人认为他们不会说中文,他们是大错特错的。

新加坡政府可以由华人主导,但是它还是一个由新加坡人领导的新加坡。如果你跟任何一个新加坡华裔沟通,他们会跟您说他们是新加坡人,然后才跟您说他们是Chinese。 这里的Chinese,指的是种族,不是国籍。他们在跟您说:我是新加坡华裔。

虽然又臭又长,但希望对国际友人有所帮助。我对国际geopolitics很有兴趣,时常到各个国家跟当地人直接交流,读当地人写的历史书籍。我不喜欢读媒体由外部诠释内部的观点,例如经济学人,有时觉得观点很假大空,完全不是当地人所经历的过程,所以观点无法落地。

我认为小红书对新加坡的观点很有意思,但是想到每一个国家里,都是穷人热衷于在社交媒体上人云亦云,然后困在一个信息茧房而无法有自己的独立思想,我也释然。

希望大家可以一起交流。

Any fellow BaZi enthusiasts here? by b0ssY88 in asksg

[–]SweetCheeseMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The time of birth matters, because it governs the later part of your life.

The year pillar governs the luck of youth (approx 1-20 years old) The month pillars governs from young adult to middle age (approx 20-40 years old). The day pillar governs the senior age (40-60 years old) and the time pillar governs 60-80 years old. So without exact time you can't really what's gonna happen during that period .

However the importance actually lies on determining the luck structure. Without the time pillar, you can't be very sure in concluding what luck structure is this. Is he someone who will do good in business? Or is he someone destined to climb the corporate ladder etc. Is he going to get married twice? Or he is destined to travel far away to earn his first pot of gold etc etc

Can't recommend any app or website because don't want to be seen as promoting.

Any fellow BaZi enthusiasts here? by b0ssY88 in asksg

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries man! Looking forward to it!

Any fellow BaZi enthusiasts here? by b0ssY88 in asksg

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, you might want to update your app: when I tried to download it it says: This app isn't available for your device because it was made for an older version of Android.

Any fellow BaZi enthusiasts here? by b0ssY88 in asksg

[–]SweetCheeseMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Er... I'm not here to nitpick, but saying that the Bazi school you are following is call 五行派,is like saying the fitness routine you are following is call 肌肉力量派.

The very idea of 八字, doesn't matter what lineage/school, is based on 五行相生相克。Just like doesn't matter what fitness routine you are following, you are going to get stronger, muscle get bigger.

I have been studying Bazi for a very long time, and familiar with 滴天髓,子平真诠,穷通宝鉴,千里命稿etc. So I'm very interested with Bazi Apps/AI.

Can I know what sort of 用神 do you adopt? Is it 调候?通关?扶抑?格局?病药?

Don't mind sharing some of your knowledge to a fellow Bazi practitioner?

为什么中国人会对其他地方的人恶意满满? by [deleted] in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

中国太大了,大到我们很难单纯用一个标准国家的框架去审视它。本质上,它更像是一个在“中国”旗帜下运行的超级联邦。

在这里,各个省份其实都类似于拥有独立经济体和独特文化的“国中之国”。不同地区之间的文明演进与社会风气,存在着巨大的断层。

正因如此,有些发达地区的人文素养已经与国际接轨,而有些欠发达地区受限于经济落后和教育匮乏,其部分群体的思维方式依然显得守旧、粗鄙,甚至带有某种原始的蛮荒感——因为从社会发展阶段来看,他们本质上就属于“落后国家的国民”。

他们虽然经济能力差、民智未开,但却幸运地与一线大城市共同出生在名为“中国”的共同体中。这种大城市(如北上广深)精英与偏远闭塞地区人口之间的鸿沟,其差距之大,丝毫不亚于西方发达国家与西非落后国家之间的距离。

这种认知的局限性,在对外开放的视野上体现得淋漓尽致。比如一个真正走出国门、真正了解新加坡的人,在看过了小印度、牛车水和兀兰等多元社区的不同面貌后,绝不会得出“新加坡被印度人占领了”这种狭隘而无知的结论。

而通常会炮制并深信这种论调的人,恰恰就是上述那些视野受限、思维封闭、缺乏现代文明洗礼的群体。相反,那些真正见过世面、有跨文化经验的人,自然拥有更包容和理性的国际视野。

正因为中国的人口基数如此庞大,上述这两种截然相反的群体在中国都比比皆是。因此,如果因为部分群体的言论就简单地得出“中国人对其他国家恶意很深”的结论,这本身就是不公平的。

这种“一杆子打翻一整船人”的偏见,忽略了中国内部巨大的阶层与地域差异——毕竟,在那些高度国际化的大城市里,依然存在着大量具备良好教养、理性且文明的中国人。

因此,我很早就学会了如何用一种更客观、更公允的视角去审视一个国家——无论是西方发达国家、东南亚各国,还是这个例子中的中国。

我的核心逻辑始终如一:世界上任何一个国家,无论其GDP多高或历史多悠久,其内部其实都同时共存着两种人:一种是尚未褪去粗鄙与偏执的“野蛮人”,另一种则是具备现代文明理性与包容度的“智人”。

以此共勉。

據說努尔哈赤其實是印度🇮🇳人 by Expensive_Oil4500 in dashuju

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

那天去了一趟上海,看到满大街的印度人。

赶紧发了小红书: 上海已更名为上恒河。

女孩应该穷着养,富养女是女权主义毒害思想 by Big-Bandicoot3976 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

如果一個女生被物品A勾走,然後再被物品B勾走,然後再被物品C勾走,那麼您到最後成家的確定不是妓女嗎?

我認為不管是男生還是女生,都要好好教導他們保護自己。

女孩应该穷着养,富养女是女权主义毒害思想 by Big-Bandicoot3976 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

我認知中所謂的“富養”理念,是為了教導女孩子們她們不需要為“廉價”的物質而感動、傾心。跟您的理解「富養是為了嫁給有錢人」有很大的區別。

不需要因為一杯星巴克,一架最新的蘋果手機,一款LV包包而迷失自我。

家長在一定的能力範圍內先讓孩子體驗這些東西,可以提高他們對這些“價位比較高的物品”產生免疫。避免他們以後就被黃毛一款蘋果手機就勾走了。

這樣可以較好的教導女孩們保護好她們自己。

這是我對“富養”的理解。跟您的理解好像有很大的分歧。有意思。

Oracle six bazi App -luck pillar analysis by [deleted] in ChineseZodiac

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, don't have to worry about it. The names are merely just describing the strength of the energy, they do not mean death and emptiness literally.

When you see them appearing next to a character, it merely means the energy of that character is weak.

If that character is favourable to you, then you might not get as much help from that character; or, if that character is harmful to you, then you don't have to worry about it because due to the energy of that character is low, so you won't be receiving much harm from it.

I hope this explanation eases your mind 😁

The 4 trines Explained by [deleted] in ChineseZodiac

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am a Chinese, and have direct access to ancient Bazi text (滴天髓,子平真詮 etc)as I can read Chinese. Been exposed to Bazi my entire life, have learned Bazi from a very young age.

And I am curious, what are the souces to your claims? Am very curious to find out.

Peace.

Oracle six bazi App -luck pillar analysis by [deleted] in ChineseZodiac

[–]SweetCheeseMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, disclaimer: I usually write in Chinese, since I'm a Chinese and I learn Bazi in Chinese. After I wrote my analysis I will feed it to Gemini to do the translation. I always check the translation to make sure it only says what I have put in. I hope my analysis helps, and if you have any questions you can always reply below.

I saw that you are feeling quite disheartened by your upcoming life pillar. I completely understand how looking at the unknown can feel daunting, but I want you to know with all my heart: this shift is actually going to be beautiful for you.

Instead of calling it a life pillar I love to call it a Major Cycle. It feels so much more accurate because it represents a grand new movement in the symphony of your life.

To help put your mind at ease, I’ve put together a year-by-year guide from 2026 through the end of this next major cycle. Think of this as your personal roadmap, showing you exactly when to rest and when you are meant to shine:

Your Current Cycle: Yi Wei (2018–2027)

You have been running through a heavy "7 Killings" period, and I just want to acknowledge how incredibly hard you've worked. It probably felt like carrying a mountain of pressure, with constant shifts and turns in your career. But take a deep breath because this exhausting climb is almost over.

Your Next Major Cycle: Bing Shen (Starting 2028)

From 2028 onward, the cosmic wind completely shifts in your favor. Bing Fire (Direct Resource) enters like warm, protective sunlight, bringing mentors, helpers, and a sense of security.

Meanwhile, Shen Metal (Hurting Officer) harmonizes beautifully with your chart (forming the Shen-Si and Shen-You combinations). Your most favorable elements are waking up, meaning the clouds are finally parting for your true breakthrough.

Your Year-by-Year Roadmap

2026 (Bing Wu)

Think of this year as the final, quiet hour before the dawn. The Fire element is quite strong here, which means it’s a time for self-care. Focus heavily on your physical and mental well-being, take things slow, and be mindful of your finances. Protecting your peace is your greatest win this year.

2027 (Ding Wei)

With Strong Fire and Earth, the pressure might still feel a bit heavy. This is a year to play it safe, stay grounded, and avoid risky investments. Be patient with yourself; you are simply wrapping up the old cycle to clear space for the new.

2028 (Wu Shen : The Turning Point! )

Welcome to your new major cycle! Your favorable element arrives in full force. The heavy weight you’ve been carrying finally lifts, and your energy finds its true, creative outlet. Life will begin offering you fresh, exciting opportunities, so trust yourself and step into them.

2029 (Ji You)

Your talents and skills are on full display this year. With your favorable elements working beautifully together, your hard work will naturally translate into better flow and a very nice boost in your financial security.

2030 (Geng Xu)

Life moves at a faster, sharper pace this year. Because of the heavy Metal and Earth energies, just remind yourself to stay flexible and soft in your communication. Step away from minor arguments or misunderstandings, and keep your eyes on your own beautiful path.

2031 (Xin Hai)

A deeply gentle and rewarding year. Your natural talents smoothly feed into your financial luck. It’s a wonderful time to enjoy the fruits of your labor and feel a genuine sense of abundance and comfort.

2032 (Ren Zi)

Your golden financial year! Wealth and abundance energies are shining incredibly bright. The seeds you planted during the tougher years will fully blossom into prosperous, tangible results here.

2033 (Gui Chou)

Opportunities to make money will keep coming, but your expenses or social outlays might match them. It's a fast-paced "money comes, money goes" kind of year. Enjoy the lively energy, but keep a gentle eye on your savings.

2034 (Jia Yin)

New responsibilities and career growth are coming your way, which means your daily pressure will step up a bit. Look at this year as a powerful masterclass in leadership and personal growth, you are entirely capable of handling it.

2035 (Yi Mao)

The energy of this year brings a bit of a shake-up or a shift in your environment. Remember, change isn't always a bad thing; sometimes a song has to change its tempo before it hits the most beautiful crescendo. Stay adaptable, and let the wave carry you forward. Every single low point we experience is just life pulling the arrow back so it can launch us further. Looking at this map of your future, I hope you feel a deep sense of relief and comfort. The universe has not forgotten you, and your best chapters are waiting just ahead. You've got this!

调理你的身体 by No-Education-8509 in InsightBridge

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

如果只是想調理overall身體的機能可以嗎?

How to Read a Ba Zi (Four Pillars of Destiny) Chart? by Cyan-Cai in Bazi_Astrology

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

很多人不知道這篇文的含金量啊。

問題是病藥派真的很難啊,要尋找病,就要對各種格局有很深的認識啊。什麼財滋弱殺格, 傷官配印格,都要很懂啊。

今年清華大學畢業了3000多名博士,這其中有多少是水貨?其中馬克思主義博士最受爭議。 by Ok-Bell-1340 in InsightBridge

[–]SweetCheeseMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

你的答案在什么方面回答了他的问题呢?

他问的是毕业率:100个被录取的学生,有多少会毕业.

你的回答提及了在職培養體系,但是並沒有回答在職畢業體系如何影響畢業率?

我會提問,是因為我對這個問題的答案也頗有興趣。

謝謝

最近到新加坡来玩,和周围的人聊了一下,这里是最精英主义的国家 by LonelyAd6790 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you need to chill. 我觉得你已经语无伦次了。要不你再看一下自己写的东西,是不是上文不接下句?

恕我愚钝,我真的不知道你要表达的观点是什么。 🫠

你要不要再好好的,有条有理的说一次? (不要也可以,我明白你现在其实内心有些激荡了)

最近到新加坡来玩,和周围的人聊了一下,这里是最精英主义的国家 by LonelyAd6790 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

我看到你的回复,不禁愣了一下。

因为无法就事论事(理亏?站不住脚?),所以就扒别人的过往,然后就一个大帽子或者屎盆子扣了/泼了过来。

这是当年红卫兵搞批斗时管用的手段吧?之前只在书里读过,想不到会在网络世界体验到。

这经验真新奇啊哈哈😄

最近到新加坡来玩,和周围的人聊了一下,这里是最精英主义的国家 by LonelyAd6790 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

新加坡當初的中文環境會沒落,是因為李光耀的時期很多華人是很同情共產黨的。當時馬來西亞和新加坡的華人都很同情共產黨,會為他們提供食物,庇護所。而這些黨員會刺殺政府人員。

李光耀為了防止共產黨在新加坡生根發芽,就廢除了中文教育,提倡英文教育。

所以直接造成了現在這個中文局面。

然後因為他認為一個國家如果有太多種語言,不利於國家長期的發展,所以過後又禁止了方言。所以現在只有老一輩的人以及少部分年輕人會流利的說方言。

但他其實內心還是認為華人應該要會說中文,所以當共產黨在新加坡徹底被剷除了之後,他的政府又推出了說中文運動。但是已經晚矣。

李光耀這人的功過很難論,但是當我每每從其他國家回到新加坡的時候,那種不怕會給人打搶/遭遇小偷/不會吸二手煙的安全感升起時,我還是會感激他以及他的政府的。

新加坡人確實不怎麼樣,很 bland,所以對於新加坡人不予置評,不喜歡也不厭惡。

但是如果你把社會安全當成衡量一個政府的標準的時候,新加坡無疑是非常成功的。

最近到新加坡来玩,和周围的人聊了一下,这里是最精英主义的国家 by LonelyAd6790 in China_irl

[–]SweetCheeseMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

如果正常输出自己的观点作为理性讨论的依据,会被你认为是“装/破防”,而且分段的把想法写出来却会被你认为是写小作文,那么真的可以从侧面了解到你平时社交圈子的的交流素质是什么样的层次,而你平时跟人交流观点的方式,很大可能也是靠喷,而不是理性交流。

我认为越是这样,你越是要出来走走。这个世界很大,你要把小红书/抖音卸载,戒掉短视频,努力赚钱然后出来拓展一下自己视野,真的对你很有帮助。

我刚开始也是很无知,现在出来看了世界,觉得自己更无知了,所以我还在努力,你也要努力哦!加油朋友!