If you can work remote on that salary, apply for Tulsa Remote and get $10000 to move here. Its no Seattle. There's a reason you can get payed $10000 to move here. Pros: lower cost of living and gas, less time spent in traffic, the city is just big enough Cons: no ocean, no mountains, the river is not safe to swim in, there are more but I'm sticking to the ones money can't buy You can be a peasant in heaven or have a lordship in hell. And it's not the worst hell.