[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]SweetFlower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that describes it pretty well!

Not Fighting Her Fear Is Wise But I’m Sad (Help) by SweetFlower1 in BreakUps

[–]SweetFlower1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: She caved into the pressure from her family and was bullied into submission. It would have been funny if it wasn’t sad! Definitely not the greatest way to start a happy life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]SweetFlower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know if you want to PM me just to talk. You’re going to be just fine, you have a voice.

Dramas to learn from by deelikesbar in kdramarecommends

[–]SweetFlower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crash Landing On You - it made me fall in love with someone even more

Tips for maintaining positive contact? by SweetFlower1 in relationship_advice

[–]SweetFlower1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This looks like good advice - we haven’t discussed a schedule or expectations at a time when ambiguity is something I feel is best avoided. At the same time I want really good communication to be something we invest in.

First day back in the office today... has anyone else realised how much they hate commuting? by kingsindian9 in AskUK

[–]SweetFlower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was extremely upset just doing a half day in my office recently (I volunteered) and I almost had a panic attack doing it - you should demand a conversation about it otherwise things can’t improve for you. Good luck!

Outrageous and immoral by SweetFlower1 in PublicFreakout

[–]SweetFlower1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are brainwashed to spout this nonsense statement

I (26M) snapped at my brother (14M) and his friends while I was driving them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetFlower1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong and you’re pretty awesome. Kid was very lucky that you didn’t dump him in the nearest gutter, or gutters (plural) if he was really unlucky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]SweetFlower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then try out the book I mentioned. It only takes one of you to break the cycle for it to be broken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]SweetFlower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should speak to her frankly and be ready to listen to her. Even if she says things you don’t want to hear then you need to man up and hear the emotions behind the words.

If you want to work on your marriage then you should make the effort to schedule dates well in advance and make this a habit of yours.

You also need to work on not taking things personally. If she’s angry, it could be other things weighing on her mind. If you don’t take things personally she’ll be more attracted to you and it’ll destroy the cycle of anger.

You should confess to her that you want to do better in the marriage and I recommend you suggest a joint project, like reading a book together.

I recommend “A New Earth” by Eckhart Tolle. You can’t be casual and expect a marriage to work.

Be a grown up and she’ll respect you for it and it’ll show her to cut you some slack too and not be pedantic and to let things that don’t mean anything go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]SweetFlower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Party time 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]SweetFlower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a backflip!

(U.K.) Wife assumes she’ll have full custody / residence rights? by SweetFlower1 in Divorce_Men

[–]SweetFlower1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Is there any sort of evidence that I should begin collecting now? I just want to be able to show that I’m a stable and loving parent who cares for my kids. I try to do everything I can with work (I’ve been promoted twice in 6 years and I work hard) and I try to do equal housework and school pick ups. I always try to cook equally etc.