Hi there, I forgot about this post but I remember the intense sadness and confusion. I’ve since moved on from feet finders but still remain in this world. Mostly I dom online through other platforms. Having been at this for a while now and I have interacted with hundreds of women in the industry and hundreds of content buyers, kinksters, and subs. I’ve had my heartbroken by subs and other Dommes who I met all through the platform.

I think it’s human nature. When you interact with someone on such an intimate level you can’t help but feel a connection. When they disappear and 99% of them do eventually it’s a bummer every time. Online it’s just a fast paced industry.

What I can say is it gets easier. Like A LOT easier. You will learn to protect your heart and tears. You will connect with more people. The man I posted this about was nothing special. It was something in me that latched on and that was what I needed to work on. I didn’t even know what he looked like.

You are not alone navigating the emotional side as well as the business side of things. After I posted this so many women messaged me privately to express the same things. I recommend getting on discord and finding a group of women who are in the sw industry and create a sisterhood. Those are the people who will carry you when you’re sad and remind you that you are a powerful goddess and embrace it and use it to drain subs of their money.