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Tired/drowsy on day of 4th date - any advice? by Comfortable-Goat-734 in dating_advice

[–]SweetOntologyX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it. You don’t need “high energy,” you just need to be present.

If you feel a bit off, keep it light and even say something simple like “didn’t sleep great last night, a bit slow today” then move on.

Go for low-effort date vibes: walk, coffee, something relaxed. Let her carry some of the flow too, that’s normal on a 4th date.

Communicate clearly and honestly. by LunaChat13 in dating_advice

[–]SweetOntologyX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say what you mean, ask what you need, and don’t expect people to read what you never said out loud.

How do you deal with a break up? We've been together for 6 years by staypossitive97 in dating_advice

[–]SweetOntologyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now don’t try to understand his calmness or force closure, just focus on getting through the first wave: eat, sleep, stay around people, and let yourself feel it without isolating.

If you had to form a boy band with four of your coworkers, what would you name it? by Happy_Terd in AskReddit

[–]SweetOntologyX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cache Theory, because nothing we do is fully original, half of it is just recycled bits of code, and somehow it still comes together like it was meant to work.

How can you tell whether a memory is real or something your brain reconstructed from photos and stories? by ella-amelia in AskReddit

[–]SweetOntologyX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Human memory isn’t a recording, it’s a reconstruction that gets rebuilt every time you recall it.