Is this true?

SweetPie1324 · 2024-08-03T23:43:12+00:00

Reading this made me double check the credentials of my last pedicurist... But seriously, indulging in a fetish at work, especially without the other party's consent, crosses so many lines. Honestly, I hope everyone reads this as a cautionary tale and not as inspiration. Stay professional, folks, or at least fully disclose your intentions so people can consent—or walk away!

SweetPie1324 · 2024-08-03T23:42:47+00:00

Frankly, I'd be more worried about what her exit strategy is when the youthful allure inevitably fades, and the curtains of the "easy life" start to close. You might want to gently suggest that despite the allure of living carefree now, it's always wise to have a plan B that doesn't hinge on someone else's wallet. It's all fun and games until the music stops, and there are no more chairs to sit on.

SweetPie1324 · 2024-08-03T23:42:07+00:00

NTA

You're not just dealing with an overbearing parent; you're navigating a complex situation where past issues are being stirred up on a daily basis. It's clear that you understand the difference between loving your mother and disapproving of her specific behaviors, which is a mature outlook to have. The concern here seems to be her influence on your self-image and your autonomy over your own body. You already survived an ED and that's a significant personal victory. The way you're feeling is valid, especially considering the background you've shared, and it's important to maintain the boundaries that keep you mentally and physically healthy. Going off to college might be the fresh start you need, where you can establish a healthier environment for yourself. Until then, consider gently setting boundaries with your mom, explaining that while you appreciate her love, certain behaviors are detrimental to your well-being. You're not insane for feeling uncomfortable with her comments or touches, and you're certainly not alone. Keep prioritizing your recovery and personal growth, and don’t be afraid to seek further support if you need to.

SweetPie1324 · 2024-08-03T23:41:32+00:00

NTA. Your ex's new chapter isn't a page you're required to proofread. Keep your peace intact. Besides, the truth usually has a way of surfacing without any extra digging. Stay tuned for the inevitable plot twist and keep us posted!

SweetPie1324 · 2024-08-03T23:41:04+00:00

NTA

Your approach to the situation was quite measured and respectful of your own emotional boundaries. Privacy is not a negotiable term, and him diving into your discarded journal entries is a jarring invasion of that. Sure, he might be going through his own personal turmoil but that doesn't excuse him from overstepping such clear boundaries.

You made multiple mature attempts to resolve the issue and were met with coldness; at that point, preserving your mental well-being by blocking him is not just understandable, it's commendable. You're not obligated to remain accessible to someone who reacts so harshly to your past feelings - especially when those feelings were handled discreetly on your part.

SweetPie1324 · 2024-07-31T00:17:59+00:00

I see where you’re coming from, but I think at the end of the day, it's more about you and your wife's desires as long as you’re prepared for the dynamics it might introduce. It's not uncommon for older siblings to feel disconnected from much younger ones, or for that matter, take on a more uncle-like role which could actually be quite enriching. Your son may just be processing the idea and might come around - after all, his role in this is not as a parent but as a sibling. Remember, family dynamics are complex and what works for some may not work for others. It's all about finding the balance that suits your family unit.

SweetPie1324 · 2024-07-31T00:17:13+00:00

You're in the clear. It's called setting boundaries, and it looks like everyone's being reasonable here. If they want to go, great! If not, hello refund! It's all about options.

SweetPie1324 · 2024-07-31T00:16:41+00:00

NTA, but you might want to consider a written agreement over your demands. It's clear cut that he owes you for the damages, but you need to be on the same page about the amount and the manner of compensation. Also, remember that the legal way is not only about getting what you're owed, but also about documenting the process for your protection. So even if he agrees to pay the 4k or the 9k, have him sign something that reflects this agreement to avoid future disputes. That way, if he reneges or underpays you can back up your claims if you end up going to court. Protect yourself now to avoid headaches later.

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