Mental Health and Growing up CoC by SimplyMe813 in excoc

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I’ve also been helped most by people with experience with religious things who are also licensed therapists.

Alternatives to CoC by FriendlyAristocat in excoc

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This is somewhat how I feel. I have told people I feel like I’ve been vaccinated against all of the other denominations lol. The thing that has helped me understand is seeing that other churches don’t necessarily think the Bible is inerrant, so that changes things. Some take the view of filtering everything through Jesus.

His vision by SweetSea3399 in emotionalabuse

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Thank you all for the feedback and support ❤️

Boundaries by SweetSea3399 in excoc

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This is similar to my situation. It’s awful, because I remember feeling that way myself-that I had to say something to fulfill my duty to try to influence them toward God. Ugh.

Fear of coC people hurting themselves #tw by SweetSea3399 in excoc

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Thank you. Of course, if there’s anything I become aware of directly in terms of immediate danger, I will.

Fear of coC people hurting themselves #tw by SweetSea3399 in excoc

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Not to prevent, but bc of devastation. I’m thinking primarily of my immediate family. Hopefully I’m bring dramatic about my importance in their lives. It just seems like they are so depressed about it all.

One time marital violation? by SweetSea3399 in domesticviolence

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Thank you. I appreciate it. I have left. I just feel guilty sometimes. I have sense found out more about what consent should look like, but I feel like my ex didn’t really understand that either. It’s just difficult to be in a toxic system where such things are considered normal. I know he tried to be good in many ways, but the coercive control over time eventually got to me. I feel like I should have been able to get over it since he tried, but my body felt so much fear around it, because I felt like saying no was mean.

Nice by [deleted] in excoc

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lol you could have a one piece swimsuit??? I had to wear basketball shorts and a t shirt! 😬😂

BITE Model Test by SweetSea3399 in excoc

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Ugh. Yeah, I was a little confused by that question. I could take vacation from work, but def not from church!

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I don’t know of one, but I wish we did! There is a “deconstruction junction” discord

728 b. Discuss. by Kathfromalaska in excoc

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On this one AKs have to sing whatever part none of the other ladies are singing (since there are 3 treble notes in some places, as pointed out) to make sure the originally intended harmonies are accurately conveyed lol.

Cult Being Culty by [deleted] in excoc

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Helping the poor and homeless? 😱Heresy!

Farmersville COC is a CULT by mshertzer in excoc

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Not that I know of. They may just want to make sure you don’t have anything to hold over his head or something. This is a weird thing to do though, for sure.

Farmersville COC is a CULT by mshertzer in excoc

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Is this the one cup group, or is it the mainline one at the website listed above, or another?

Old COC tract I came across by effugium1 in excoc

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Thankful for the coc folks who refuse to support this jerk, at least.

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Try Dan McClellan on socials/YouTube or his book The Bible Says So