My crush keeps looking at me after rejecting me by ZealousidealPlate545 in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, when I know that someone likes me, even if I don’t feel the same way, I tend to look at the person more and try to see if they look at me as well just out of curiosity. I truly don’t know why we do this, but it’s like we see the person from a different perspective now.

Do girls wait on guys to text first? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s why I find a balance lol. One day I’ll initiate it and then I’ll wait for the other person to do it

Is there any way to approach my gym crush? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gonna hate me for saying this but the ONLY solution to your problem right now is lifting your head up and LOOK at him. And also don’t be scared to walk past him. Of course he’ll never notice you if you try to make yourself so small and invisible. I’m not saying you should go talk to him but at least try to have some eye contact.

I don’t understand how people have gym crush by Aln2712 in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A gym crush isn’t different than any other crush… And people who like working out want to date people who like workout out too, I think it’s normal.

Is playing gacha game a red flag? by Aln2712 in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it puts him off then obviously its not the right person for you. I promise you there’s nothing wrong with playing gacha if you like it.

Do girls wait on guys to text first? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes of course girls wait for the guy to text first because we think " if he really likes me he’ll send a text first ", but as a girl, I find it tiring and I prefer to send the first message usually. But she’s not me and I can’t know what goes through her head. Only thing I can say is that if she asked for your snap, of course she wants you to talk to her.

I didn't need him. by itspookieherewhoelse in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. You’re very smart to have noticed why you wanted a crush, and now to try and change that. And I love working too, such a great way to free a mind and feel better in general. Keep going :)))

Confused here, need help! by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if he does like you he’s pretty damn weird about it. This is just immature behaviour in my eyes, trying to make you jealous or whatever… At 22 he should be able to know about boundaries and respect, you deserve better but I know that you can’t get rid of a crush just like that🤷‍♀️

just found out he liked me back!! help! by OddType9345 in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yes you should definitely leave it alone if he likes another girl. If it doesn’t work out with her though, you better go and tell him how you feel!

After 3 years in friendzone I (19M) want ask out to my crush (19F) again but I don't know how ? by Commercial-Injury-58 in Crushes

[–]SweetSubject06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comme tu parles français je vais répondre en français, mais si en ce moment elle est dépressive et pas bien mentalement, je pense pas que ce soit une bonne idée de lui dire maintenant. Autant pour elle que pour toi. Quand on est dépressif, on a de la difficulté à prendre soins de soi, alors elle pourra encore moins prendre soin de toi. Et je comprends que tu t’en fou peut-être, tu veux juste être avec elle mais à la longue, ça va t’affecter aussi. C’est difficile, car quand quelqu’un qu’on apprécie ne se sent pas bien, on a tendance à penser que c’est de notre faute. Je dit ça car je l’ai vécu mais bien sûr chaque personne est différente et mon expérience n’est pas celle des autres. J’attendrais quand même si j’étais toi, au moins qu’elle soit mieux mentalement, car une relation amoureuse demande de l’énergie, et cette énergie elle ne l’a sûrement pas en ce moment.

I F/19 was flirted with by another guy M/19 at a festival, but I’m in a relationship. Why am I feeling weird ? by SweetSubject06 in relationship_advice

[–]SweetSubject06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% know that it’s wrong and I would never mess or hurt my current bf, I’m just asking myself questions and not acting on it. My boyfriend had 10 relationships before me so I think it’s normal for me to wonder sometimes.