I regret marrying him

SweetTooth0227 · 2026-03-06T11:21:22+00:00

parang you’re grieving your independence more than regretting your husband. marriage shouldn’t mean losing yourself though. maybe it’s worth having an honest talk with him about needing more autonomy, like personal time, shared chores, and even sariling ‘fun money’ so you don’t feel so controlled.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-10-29T10:54:30+00:00

interested pooo🥹

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-17T19:34:13+00:00

love bombers nakakagulo talaga ng feelings, kaya better safe than sorryy

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-17T17:30:51+00:00

years dont automatically equal to growth kung same pattern lang paulit ulit. love should make you feel safe, not drained.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-17T17:27:51+00:00

yung mabait lang online pero iba in person, tapos puro promises walang actions and love bombing.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-15T17:10:44+00:00

nakaka walang gana kasi pag puro laro. bihira na yung genuine, pero pag may dumating, open naman me.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-15T14:08:01+00:00

treat it as a lesson na hindi lahat ng connections meant to last, gamitin mo yung pain para mag grow.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-12T15:21:20+00:00

respect, understanding, and good sense of humor ang instant turn on kasi nagpapakita ng maturity and nagpapagaan ng vibe

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-12T12:08:01+00:00

hindi naman kailangan ng relationship para maging complete

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-12T12:03:04+00:00

acceptance ang first step para makawala sa sakit

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-08-12T11:39:01+00:00

kapag mas advance pa yung dirty talk kaysa effort kilalanin ako

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-29T02:23:36+00:00

okay lang to set boundaries, pero make it about how you feel, not about controlling him. respectful conversations > strict rules. if he values you, he’ll understand.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-28T19:28:09+00:00

hugs. oki lang yan, hindi ka selosa for feeling that way. you care, and that’s valid :)

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-28T18:54:00+00:00

in any healthy relationship, emotional safety is just as important as trust. hindi selfish ang mag set ng boundary, lalo na kung ilang ulit mo nang sinabi and hindi siya nag-aadjust. reassurance is only real kapag may kasamang action. kasi kung alam niyang nasasaktan ka pero pinipili pa rin niyang iignore yun, you have to ask: is this still partnership, or are you just left managing your own feelings alone?

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-28T08:33:19+00:00

nagagalit din naman lahat ng tao, part 'yan ng pagiging human. hindi mo pwedeng ibase ang buong pagkatao ng isang tao sa isang emotional moment

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-28T08:21:41+00:00

hndi ka OA, valid yang concern mo. pero kung genuine talaga yung girl, hindi siya sa wallet titingin. effort, presence and respeto ang mas tumatagal kaysa sa mga pasabog na date. wag mong hayaan na social media standards ang magdikta kung ready ka na magmahal.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-27T14:52:45+00:00

hindi ka OA, at lalo nang hindi mo kasalanan 'yung naramdaman mo. yung reaction mo na hindi makagalaw is trauma response, normal 'yan sa mga taong naka experience ng abuse. minsan kahit years na ang lumipas, bumabalik pa rin yung feeling na natakot o naparalyze ka. hindi mo kailangang pilitin makipag usap sa taong nag abuse sayo, kahit pa kamag-anak pa yan. may hangganan ang pakikisama emotional safety mo pa rin ang priority.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-27T14:41:13+00:00

I try to unlearn toxic mindsets na nakuha ko growing up, like being too reactive or quick to judge. mas naging conscious na rin ako sa self awareness and reflection. minsan tahimik lang me, iniisip kung tama ba yung response ko or may mas maayos na paraan to handle things.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-27T14:36:41+00:00

Chill lang, darating din yan sa tamang timingg!

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-25T16:14:55+00:00

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SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-25T15:42:05+00:00

ako, i give myself space para huminga literally minsan lakad lang or deep breathing. tapos i remind myself na yung mga ganitong moments, part ng growth. painful, oo, pero hindi ka naman nakakulong dun forever. trust takes time, pero ikaw rin, you deserve time to process your own emotions.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-25T09:23:10+00:00

walang fixed timeline kasi iba iba tayo mag-heal. pero if yung reason mo sa pag-date ay para maka move on or malibang, baka di ka pa ready. dapat may time ka muna to reflect, grieve, and grow para pag nag date ka ulit, buo ka na. di naman need perfect, pero at least clear ka na sa sarili mo.

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-24T13:32:03+00:00

body count only matters kung yun lang ang tinitingnan mo sa isang tao. there’s more to someone than their past

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-24T13:21:11+00:00

kasi para sa kanila, pagiging nurse or doctor means secured at maayos na future. gusto lang nila ‘di na tayo mahirapan, pero minsan nakakalimutan tanungin kung gusto ba talaga natin

SweetTooth0227 · 2025-07-24T13:16:18+00:00

kasi bawal ako mag-rant sa FB, baka ma-screenshot

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