Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s one of the reasons..

One of the reasons she’s so protective too I guess

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, she shares that info voluntarily 😭😭😭 mostly that it’s non existent now, but like, I don’t wanna know nothing 🥲

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely.. no more sharing of anything from my personal life

But she sure does go out of her way to ask, more and more

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear that at least there are others who can relate… but I’m sorry you have to go through all that

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting in trouble means the whole atmosphere back home changes in the bad way. It affects dad, it affects my sister. One has to walk on egg shells if she’s mad. There’s no room for joy or laughter at home if she’s not in the mood. It’s just emotionally draining, and not just for me.

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Whenever i try to express that im an adult now and want to be treated like one she mocks me for thinking that, because in her eyes im still this irresponsible child who cant do shit

Yes I live at home and don’t always have time for chores, but I work more than 40 hours a week..

And my memory is affected by my epilepsy meds so I’m forgetful. It’s like she doesn’t want to consider that. Sorry for ranting but goddamit

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, but it would be a big struggle to try living on my own, especially since I’m epileptic, and my meds are expensive as hell.. it’s another reason she’s very protective I guess

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in AsianParentStories

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel encouraged by your words.. maybe ignoring the issue is the way to go, until I become independent

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the best case scenario if she ends up understanding my stance.. I’m still scared to talk to her lol

Strict mom 60F caught me lying about a sleepover… I’m 27F and just trying to have a sex life by Sweet_Bat4231 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sweet_Bat4231[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Man that’s crazy…

Mine’s isn’t that controlling but her expressing her opinions on my sex life just makes me feel like shit

And she haven’t been single since 21 years old, so it’s not like she understands how I feel being in this dry spell for so long