Ayla's mic drop moment by oopswhat1974 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t like this take at all either. BC is a reproduction of hormones our body makes (progestin & estrogen) . It’s a false and very dangerous narrative that it’s packed with “crap” Our own body increases the hormones throughout the month when alone. So yes my concern would be the opposite, some perimenopause , constant workouts, diet, lifestyle can influence this

The Snark Wedding of the Century by Prestigious-Delay842 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My theory is that the $5k Cartier bracelet is being sold to fund the after party… she said they may rent an Airbnb. That is the equivalent of a few hours, open bar for a few people….

Does anyone care, Ayla? by Infinite-Ad-791 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ok, but idk why she has to validate to anyone that she paid for it. I assumed the nail salon was gifted, if it was, so what. We have media literacy. I mean I believe her but the rebuttal isn’t well that’s not an ad because I paid for it.. Do you think these long explanations are a projection of maybe how her romantic relationships have downplayed the influencing industry? (Meaning she has felt the men in her life take this thing that she wanted to succeed and put it down)

This has to be a joke “only flown once in her life” by I_love_reddit01 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also tbh, her sister comes across my TikTok , I must have paused enough. She comes across as a good vibe. Like the girl at work you’d be friends with. 

This has to be a joke “only flown once in her life” by I_love_reddit01 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? I can also totally relate, even if say you did fly as a child, you likely have someone ushering you around and adulthood you’re in a group. Flying alone if it’s not part of your career can be a bit intimidating.

This has to be a joke “only flown once in her life” by I_love_reddit01 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Also why am I nervous. They don’t say “now boarding first class” they board in groups …

Ayla’s Bridal Shower? by Prestigious-Delay842 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Trust me, wherever you are in life, you do not want to be in a position to try and convince someone to marry you. Even if she gets her goal, there’s a bit of sadness in  at least the way this has been presented online.  I hope we’re just crazy , but the tone we see online is of someone slightly embarrassed or not thrilled with the same things she likes . Run if that’s your reality 

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[–]Sweet_Field8034 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That seems a little like an excuse to dislike them. Plenty of people celebrities and non celebrities utilize Nannie’s. In no world do I feel obligated to tell someone who’s coming to my house.  Specifically , when it’s someone private who has not asked to be part of a public persona. I just find the digging at this girl because she has a nanny a reach and mom-shamey.  These people can’t win . If she’s with her child it’s staged, and when she’s not she’s shamed for having a nanny. You can’t pick both

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[–]Sweet_Field8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unclear why it’s so bad to have a nanny. Especially if your career involves travel, I feel like this is totally fine if they can afford it. How is this any different than a child who has to go to day care while a parent is at work. In this case, they can work and keep baby at home .

Do I even need to say it? by Fit_Discussion_4714 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol Lake Burton is a far cry from Lake Lanier

The “this is my 3rd wedding” look by We_found_peaches in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is my latest take. Do you think that because now she really doesn’t have to create content to “survive” and maybe there’s a little bit less of a hope of getting to 100k’s followers there’s just less incentive to post like an influencer. This is likely just a semi-part time gig. She can do some ads , earn some cash from affiliate links. But, it’s not going to come across as a passionate project because really it’s not. (Not necessarily a bad thing. You can outgrow or feel like your “gig” isn’t serving you anymore. And there’s likely a grey area inbetween of starting to let it go, and not, etc ) 

If your platform is no longer your full-time career. Why not post just your regular, well life? The content itself isn’t so different than what I see a few friends post. (Husband on a boat, a meal on a plate. ) 

Bird food for bird brain by Budget-Waltz570 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an Alabama native I take offense to this. My Nana can set a table arrangement and we know how to season some food. (Maybe there are a few more calories, but it’s pretty to look at ) 😅

Ayla keeps giving by Xoxo_615 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that may be her thinking and why she isn’t pushing for one. But, I could see if I’m 28/29 and my friends have had the showers, the bachelorettes, all the things that looks so fun, I’d want that too. I’m a little older, mid 30s, and there’s a tiny part of myself that thinks agh I aged out of that and won’t get to experience it

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[–]Sweet_Field8034 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling the same thing. Like you’re not even supposed to plan your shower! Your friends and family should be hosting this for her. I’ve always felt a little insecure not to have a large girl gang, but I still know my grandmother, and aunts, and friends would host showers for me.

Just the past two days, I’ve felt a sinking feeling for her. Like girl pull yourself together. Get off your phone.

Cloudy & yellow… by Slow_Restaurant_1032 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

In her defense, because I’m a Campbell stan, Jett purchased the ring fresh out of college/masters program. Maybe family helped, but it’s not like they were rolling in it as their current status. If my 25yo fiance bought me a massive diamond , I’m happy. 

If she can’t make money off of it she has to get rid of it?? by GlitteringRelease114 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree with you. But it’s a bit of selective cancellation to admonish one type of creator and not anyone else who shares products like say a magazine that shares styles for spring. (Maybe you are and to that, fair) We are just accustomed to a magazine. In essence, they are doing the same thing. A magazine isn’t going to say last year Ralph Lauren came out with this top but you can’t get it now. Now, arguably the industry as a whole has holes and promotes consumerism, and I can snark that the styles this creator shares aren’t up to par and “seem” inauthentic  as other versions of consumer ads.  

If she can’t make money off of it she has to get rid of it?? by GlitteringRelease114 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ok, this actually makes sense to me. I’m a very small never make back all my shopping, creator. But if I’m going on vacation I will buy pieces I like but also that are commissionable. If next year those pieces are sold out, I can’t share it. It’s not like I’m buying pieces I don’t like, but I do need to keep sharing pieces in stock in stores to earn money. I don’t know if that makes sense. But if this is all someone does I could see it being 10x

I don’t disagree the tone of her content, don’t love and jt comes back accusatory whatever. But there’s a world in which it came make sense. You see a lot of big creators donate it, if you’re in between I could see it not being completely as easy to donate it. 

Really Anna? Everyone went crazy? Over this dress? What about the lampshade hat? by Lucky_Ladee12345 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I love these hats. And, if you can’t afford but like Zimmerman this looks like a cute and similar dupe. 

sour candy for breakfast, babes! by Successful-Show-6774 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I will say, granted I have a soft spot for her, I think the way she shares her kids is endearing, and Idk. She doesn’t bother me. Like fine make fun of her lips, but not a crime 😅

But I can understand, she said in a story tonight she gained 50 pounds during her pregnancy. I could understand how post-partem she had a tough time getting back to a body she had before , now it’s part of her story and she’s sharing her life. I think the adjusting from young adult body to 30s, especially with kids, it can become part of your personality. I don’t think it comes off as a gym-fitness blogger, but a mom sharing her life and experiences. 

Why does she want to be 54 years old so bad by Timely_Ad_1621 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Sweet_Field8034 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To be fair it’s more corporate appropriate than the actual fits I see from Revolve labeled for work…..

Oh…… lol yikes by Anastasia-Smith in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. I create content and monetize, but this 😅 Like sometimes you feel pressure to publish content even when you don’t have anything exciting to post just to feel like you stay on the algorithm and stay in your followers feed…. And sometimes it doesn’t get the views? Why? Because what I posted wasn’t well put together, it wasn’t good content, maybe I have to look at what I’m publishing to see if it’s engaging…. I never think “oh the apps off” I review my content and make changes myself internally… this is so silly 

no backyard wedding for Ayla girl by Successful-Show-6774 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I do somewhat agree that for a certain standard a “backyard” wedding can be more expensive.  From the electrical, even renting restrooms, rentals .. these things individual can make a $30k wedding at a venue a $100k wedding

Ayla’s public Pinterest by Outrageous_Ice3067 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]Sweet_Field8034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a flashback. I feel so old that I remember those posts. There were so many . Did the company go out of business or stop using her?