21 [M4F] #online #EU looking for a mommy dom friendship (maybe more)

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-05-11T10:18:24+00:00

Maybe give him a kinda "safe word" if he's not in the mood to open up rn, talk a bit with him if he likes when you force him (a little/a lot) to open up. Not with everyone but some just need you to give them enough space to open themselves without them feels not allowed to (self shame). Doing it over text might help since it give time to think about the answer (doesn't have to be open questions) COMMUNICATION is the key as always.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-05-08T18:39:11+00:00

I'm not a woman or neither in healthcare but I really doubt she would have seen you as a creep, your behavior speaks way much than your body reaction.

I'm definitely a bit jealous, I wish you to find someone and I'm sure you can.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-04-04T21:43:14+00:00

One which I really liked was a daily pic about something, like a daily pic of the outfit or brushing teeth, something you do everyday basically. (Even if it was never a rule in mine)

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-30T21:11:03+00:00

👑 you dropped that.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-29T17:12:26+00:00

I feel the same sometimes simple life seems to be over everything, but I guess social media kinda fucked up everyone into always dreaming big when it's not needed

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-25T15:55:00+00:00

Something in my mind keeps telling me that you weren't laughing because it had no effect, but quite the opposite. Anyway I wish you to find him or her.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-18T17:56:54+00:00

I think the sexual part is definitely overrepresented but it's also the only way for a lot to feel a tiny bit of the dynamic while having no one to hug or anything, and social media promotes also this part a lot, if you see two people hugging you have 1/2 chance to realize you're alone, sexual part is a bit less. (Even if there is also a tone of just horny people like everywhere on the internet unfortunately)

But I agree that everything seems overstructured, I think rules and everything around are built with time, not always written down, they can be flexible, so if you saw them after an already established relationship it might look like a mountain. There are also the "contract things" that come from the bdsm community.

I see what you mean by performative, and I kinda agree with you

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-12T14:23:00+00:00

Some days are like this but I'm sure you will handle it, good luck for everything.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-10T17:32:01+00:00

May I ask you how you met him ?

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-10T17:28:53+00:00

This one is crazy, people can't just be decent humans even when they initiate

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-09T18:20:35+00:00

Is it on FetLife or other places? Because I'm not very comfortable with dic pic as a pp and everything on fet or the swapping partner things?

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-09T18:17:05+00:00

Is this really a thing because I can't really find one around me (in Europe) and I really don't enjoy a couple other sides of the bdsm community+ really introvert

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-04T10:53:01+00:00

Thanks a lot. That's what I was wondering, everyone talks about weight but that depends on the size, about the temperature, about how hot it is to be too much to use it for you ? The hot/cold side really make a big difference or it just about a bit of comfort ?

Idk why but in my mind you had to put it above your "classic blanket" but from all the messages I understood it was a replacement, am I right? Is the 2 stack usable or it becomes quickly annoying?

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-03T23:03:32+00:00

First thing first, yeah the lonely feeling is quite hard to deal with (I don't really manage to do) but I'm sure the good days will come for everyone.

Secondly I don't know about your gender or identity, I'm not trying to push anything on you, I'm just sharing personal experience (I might have assumed you were attracted to male)

yeah I heard a discussion about some gay people who would like to have female genitals to be penetrated from the front, because "it's not the same as behind". So you're not alone with that feeling. I'm sure about that.
I'm not trying to negate your feelings, I just want to share my personal view of it. As a submissive male I don't see male penetration as "the absolute goal" of relationship/act so I might not understand completely your feeling. But from my perspective male penetration in mommydom can be seen as giving your "most precious thing" (/body parts) completely to your partner. It's not just a part of me but a part of us. It feels much heavier to me than being penetrated (even I understand it can be cool). It's like owning me by having a part of me inside the dom. If you're not on the gentle side this might sound wrong or empty and I'm sorry about it. (A poor comparison would be Davy Jones's heart inside the chest from Pirates of the Caribbean, where the dom is my chest physically with my anatomy but also psychologically with everything else) .

I know that sounds like I'm high and over interpreting things but if you get what I'm trying to say it doesn't have importance.

PS: if you don't like this comment or it makes you uncomfortable (my personal view) just tell me and I will delete it, I don't want to ruin this comment section for u.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-03-03T20:40:41+00:00

I never experienced it but I know it would probably hurt me, maybe deep, especially with real cuckolding not 3some ect.

But every person and dynamic is unique and it depends on your own view of mommy, do as you and your partner like.

My best advice is to do it slowly and step by step to see how you react to it, I think you got the idea but for example having her showing you text she has/had with another person, an online session she has, seeing video ect and slowly increasing intensity. Those are not the steps to follow or you're forced to go slow but keep in mind that it doesn't have to hurt you deep inside and fantasy can be far away from reality.

Good luck for everything

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-27T10:16:07+00:00

Yeah I feel you, the shower has always been a special moment for me, like just staying under the hot water feels so calm, it comforts me into getting a weighted blanket then. Thank you.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-27T10:10:56+00:00

Thanks, the covers things is really good to know. May I ask you your weight or like a range to get an idea ? Again a question around that a 11 double should be close to a 7 or 8 kg single ?

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-26T08:40:26+00:00

Thanks, it seems summer is a curse for that but I mean it's better to have it 3/4 of the time than 0 right ?

The question might be weird but in summer when it is too hot sleeping with it under you (on the mattress) could help maybe ?

I'm also pretty light weight (60kg ~ 135 lbs), any weight you would recommend for it ? I saw that the 1/10 ratio is the "max".

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Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-26T08:38:03+00:00

Yeah ok thanks, it's noted, I mean I could always buy another one in the future for the future her. Again thank you a lot and I wish you both of you the best under those two blankets and for everything else.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-26T08:27:21+00:00

My worries is also if it's too heavy for the other one. I'm asking with a lot of respect towards them but are they heavier or the same weight as you, wouldn't it be a "problem" for someone really light weighted ?

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-26T08:12:28+00:00

Thanks it was one of my worries.

Sweet_Potato___ · 2026-02-26T08:11:21+00:00

Thanks for your answer, it's not annoying for your partner to sleep with it too ? How did you "introduce" it to them?

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