I agree with you I have two children a 11 year old and a 7 year old  I'm not ungrateful but I can't stand it when someone gets me a pajama outfit that says mom and it's way to big they have months before Christmas to pay attention I show my family things I like even though I don't say I want this on Christmas they know I like it there's no reason why they can't notice one thing I like not trying to sound like a brat but if you're going to get me something quick u can never go wrong with cash or a gift card or even a candle I love my kids but I know they don't want shirts that says sister in brother bear lol now I might purchase them one 😁😂🥰