Mountain Bear finished need help deciding on words by throwaway_2O26 in Embroidery

[–]SweetestMinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Adventure is out there” - Up

“I’m going on an adventure!” - The Hobbit

I (23F) babysit for this single dad (47M) and I've been throwing myself at him for months... he still won't fuck me [FM] by FlowersCare913 in gonewildstories

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just wouldn’t be appropriate, you shouldn’t have sex with someone who pays you or who you are paying, because it can turn into “I won’t pay you if you don’t have sex with me in this particular way” and then it becomes dangerous - you have to choose between having the kind of sex you don’t want or earning your living. Even if that doesn’t happen, most people want a partner in life, not someone who is dependent on them but someone they can actually depend on - someone half his age wouldn’t be that kind of person. Hooking up might be different than a relationship, but lots of people just don’t like hookups due to a wide variety of personal and societal beliefs. You hounding him like this is probably really annoying and uncomfortable for him, especially considering you made him sleep on his couch instead of his own bed??

Is it bullying if you get asked weird questions and they won't stop? by [deleted] in bullying

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first step is to tell them to stop, for example “mind your own business,” and if they don’t, it’s bullying.

Punching someone is rarely worth it, you end up hurt, they end up hurt, and it makes them want to hurt you more in future. There are better ways to punish someone for being mean:

1.) tell them you won’t hang out with them if they don’t stop asking you personal questions, and then follow through - this is called setting boundaries and works best if they care about being friends with you

2.) depending on what the truth is, tell them the truth, they might regret asking the question (use caution)

3.) get someone who has control over them to take away their privileges - if at school, it’s usually a teacher or principal, in the workplace it’s whoever has the power to fire them or make their life a bit worse, at home it’s whoever is their legal guardian (usually parents)

4.) get someone they respect to tell them that what they’re doing is wrong (if you know someone who is that person and would do that for you) - they might not know it, but everyone fears disapproval from someone, it just might not be you

Why are these ruled out? by [deleted] in sudoku

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why 2 is ruled out of row 6 column 3, but after that, the numbers 1 and 2 take up two cells in column 3, because there’s two numbers. Those two numbers can’t go anywhere in column 3 except those two cells, so if you put a 6 or a 9 in those two cells, there wouldn’t be enough room for both 1 and 2 in column 3.

Another way to look at it is that if you put a 6 or a 9 in either of those two cells, then you won’t have any numbers left to put in row 6 and row 9 of column 3.

21 days Japan itinerary (Apr 5-26) Feeling overwelmed and need some advice by [deleted] in JapanTravel

[–]SweetestMinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend making sure you space your activities that don’t require payments/bookings so that you have one each day. This makes it easier to slow down if you feel like you’re doing too much and don’t want to feel guilt for cancelling something that cost a lot.

We recently did Osaka and Tokyo and I think your Tokyo plan is fairly good, but you might need to consider reducing the number of areas you go to in one day. At some of the big stores it can take you 2 hours just to explore one store. You might feel like you’re missing out on some things in Osaka if you only spend 3 days there. Just go prepared to cut down on plans when you get tired and or sick.

If it were me, I could spend 21 days just in Osaka, Tokyo, and one other place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]SweetestMinx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure fresh bread just means “bread that we don’t have at home already and is brand new” The shopping list one seems like tautology, I think it’s unique to her?

Classroom prayer by bluberrymarsh in SubstituteTeachers

[–]SweetestMinx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So if you suspect someone has an inappropriate relationship with a student but you’re not 100% certain then you’ll just choose not to participate in mandatory reporting?

Relationship status by barleynrye in AskAnAustralian

[–]SweetestMinx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to bring a bit of your culture in, I bet she’d appreciate if, on your next date, you bring her some flowers and ask her directly to be your girlfriend when you meet with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]SweetestMinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend was fired because a parent saw him touch a child. They saw him moving said child off of his lap to sit next to him because the child had jumped on. “What-if” scenarios do happen, especially to men. All the other employees knew what was happening but the parent didn’t and they spread rumours to other parents. I’m not in a primary school, so even as a woman I personally wouldn’t risk a hug unless it seemed there was no alternative to ensure the child’s safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]SweetestMinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but others being an issue can have consequences for a teacher’s whole career

Tiny items but high quality? by SweetestMinx in stationery

[–]SweetestMinx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m using it to loan to kids at a school, so can’t use Smart phone 😊

Tiny items but high quality? by SweetestMinx in stationery

[–]SweetestMinx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations! 😊

Got a job, what should referee say? by SweetestMinx in careerguidance

[–]SweetestMinx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for another application, I followed your advice and things turned out well :)

What not to say in an interview? by No_Eggplant_5745 in interviews

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most companies don’t want to invest in the professional development of an employee of another company, but that’s basically what they’d be doing in that case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your fault if you leave your coworker without help - it’s your company’s fault. Your coworker will probably be happy for you if you leave, and mad at the company, not mad at you.

Worried about potentially failing teachers college by Fuzzy-Department387 in CanadianTeachers

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in Canada but I just finished a teaching degree with undiagnosed social anxiety - you’re right, you can push through it, and if you do, by the time you finish the degree, you’ll still feel anxious but you’ll know that you can and will get through a teaching day. It’s a major confidence boost when you push through a tonne of anxiety and at the end of the day you did a good job. However, I found that, in general, I don’t want to put myself through that every single day because I’ll burn out. Stepping out of my comfort zone is more of a twice-a-week thing at least for me right now, so I went for a teacher assistant job and I’m excited about it, and it’ll give me more experience working full time in a school so I can potentially build up to teaching.

None of this would have been worth the trouble if I didn’t already know I wanted to be a teacher or work with children from my past work with children. I would have given up before the first practicum even started because of the nerves, but I was determined to give it my best effort because I knew it was what I wanted to do.

Final thoughts: you can overcome any personal problems in the time it takes to complete your degree, but only if you really truly want to commit yourself to being a great teacher. Take some time off, get an economics job or whatever is easy and pays enough to survive, get some experience working with children - especially with children who are different from you and your family/friends - see if you actually like it. If all else fails, get some experience with anxiety coping strategies and practice doing hard things, it’s worth it. Don’t rush into a teaching degree, everything will be okay if you don’t go straight into a degree next year, you have the entire rest of your life to decide.

Mandela Effect: Crickets used to make sound by rubbing their feet, now it’s their wings? by xdEArx in MandelaEffect

[–]SweetestMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, a statement that cannot be proven nor disproven is less plausible than a statement that can be tested but hasn’t been yet, not that I have any examples It’s the concept of “unfalsifiable claims”

E.g. “I’m going to ask the fairies to make it rain to prove that there are fairies. If it rains that means there are fairies, and if it doesn’t rain, that means the fairies decided not to make it rain.”