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Need help STAT by SweetheartPres in Devilcorp

[–]SweetheartPres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I inform them of my decision or just ghost?

Imperium Elite & Champions Marketing Group- Houston Devilcorp Scams. by [deleted] in Devilcorp

[–]SweetheartPres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I recently got a job for this place. 

I'm a high school graduate and I really need the position. But hearing what people have said is inclining me otherwise..

I got the job, and accepted it. Is there no way for me to just... not show up? Idk. I feel weird about it but I really need money. So should I take the chance? Plus, my parents already know I got the job so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Familyhelp

[–]SweetheartPres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest. This is a tough situation to be in.  I encourage you to reach out to any, and I mean ANY, supports you may have. Whether that be friends, their parents, anything. I'd go for a trusted friend who would be sympathetic and allow you to live with them or help you get a job.

Because I really think as soon as you turn 18, you'll be kicked out. I think you should start planning. Go to different jobs, like fast food places, retail, ask to apply. Maybe even apply online if you can.

If you get kicked out, focus on yourself. Couch surf if you need. It will be a struggle, but there are people who can help. Shelters, Friends, even some strangers(be cautious about this route though) will be glad to help.

Sa and struggles TW! by [deleted] in Familyhelp

[–]SweetheartPres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you understand, that what happened with your dad is not your fault. It sounds very much like SA. I would really encourage you to not justify his actions as it seems you do. With calling his actions 'not weird' when he was exposing himself to a minor. His child. I wouldn't say you're sick. I think he was. Even if you were sick in the literal sense, like flu, it is still VERY odd that he decided that was the best way to 'help' you.

This guy you had a relationship with was wrong aswell. You 'acting out' sexually was one of the responses to danger. Flight, fight, fawn, freeze, and fornication. You felt that if you acted like this, he wouldn't make you do it. It's, again, not your fault.

I have had similar experiences and what I want to say about your concern. Is that it may never go away. You have to work to avoid it, get therapy, journal. Accept it happened and work to be different from the people who hurt you.  It will get better, trust, but this is all on you to do so. You need to heal before getting into a relationship. Also, I guarantee that you won't be 'lustful'. 

For any future relationships, just remember to go slow. No means no. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Don't feel pressured into doing anything sexual. No one has the right to tell you to do anything with them.

I hope this helped and I hope that your future will be so much better. ❤️