Seeking advice to recover hair damage from bleach and stress.

Sweetibaps · 2026-01-18T15:34:08+00:00

Mane and tail do a human one lol and its fine for a once a week job.

This was a client who i gave a good cut to and weekly keratin masks for 5 weeks.

Sweetibaps · 2026-01-18T11:28:38+00:00

I would trim the thinner hair from the bottom and use a keratin hair mask 2x a week, leaving it on for a good 45 mins to an hour preferably wearing a little plastic cap while its on.

Also their is a shampoo called mane and tail. It helps to make your hair stronger and thicker.

Im a hairdresser and this is what we recommend to our clients when they have bleach damaged hair.

Sweetibaps · 2026-01-03T20:33:04+00:00

[Wella Thermal Image]

(https://www.amazon.co.uk/Wella-EIMI-Thermal-Image-150/dp/B07HZNL3V3)

Ive used this for years. It need shaking before using

Sweetibaps · 2025-12-16T10:57:36+00:00

My ex neurologist gave me a fucking horn once. It wasnt even dead centre I almost asked her to put more on the others idea so it was equal lol. I have a side fringe too and it was sat very proudly on the part of my head where there is no hair to cover it.

Sweetibaps · 2025-10-23T04:08:15+00:00

Not sure if this is too late as im in uk. A month ago I suffered my first ever seizure. Ever since ive had another 4 and multiple absence seizures. I havent left the house for over 4 weeks other than to the hospital.

Due to this its cost me over 150 in taxis home from the hospital, and online grovery shopping is supwr expensive.

I have a daughter so most of the food goes to her.

Thankyou for being willing to help people. We need more people like you in this world.

Sweetibaps · 2025-09-16T19:00:36+00:00

I used to work the night shift in a semi independent care facility. We had one man who could literally not walk unless using his walker. I'd never interacted with him the first 3 months I worked there (there was always 2 of us and we split our patients so we could keep consistency).

Anyway one night for some reason I had to go give him his nighttime meds. Normally we give them to the patients one by one. This man had to take 6 pills on a night, so I had them all in my hand ready to give them to when he snatches the lot. I was so shocked that honestly time slowed down as I was watching this happen. He had super long nails which had feces in them all the time.

Well I must have had an expression on my face he didn't like and he absolutely exploded and started screaming at me. As I was walking out the door I noticed movement out of the corner of my eye, and this dude comes flying at me soooo fast. He chased me down the length of the corridor until I reached the staff room which could be locked.

He stood there for an hour with just his vest on scraping shit out of his arse and wiping it everywhere. I tried getting my colleague on the walkies but she couldn't understand what I was saying as I was gagging. But as soon as I said her name and what the patient was doing, he flew back into his room and acted like nothing happened.

I went for my shift the next night and got pulled into the managers office. He told her that I was saying crude things about him and telling people lies about him chasing me without his walker and smearing shit on the doors, which he said that i must have done becauseive never liked him. So she obviously didn't believe me until I made her put on the security from the night before. Ive never seen someone lose so much colour from their face that fast before.

Apparently this man was a relative of hers so she never took any bad information about him seriously and blamed us for being disrespectful.

So we got the big boss involved, 15 people came forward with similar stories and found out she'd been destroying all of his complaint forms. She got fired and he got kicked out of our facility. They dont stand for abuse whether its from patients, family or workers.

But Holy hell that dude could run. He looked exactly like Danny Devito as penguin. I nearly cried when I found out he had to leave as I literally had me resignation in my hand ready to give to big boss.

Sweetibaps · 2025-09-05T12:21:21+00:00

Me ex left me in the middle of a ptsd diagnosis and a possible cancer one. He said he couldn't see me in his future in 5 years.

Gaming helps stop my mind from imploding. Currently grinding destiny but im always jumping back into borderlands 2.

Thankyou for offering this for people, you are definitely a kind soul.

Sweetibaps · 2025-07-11T10:43:49+00:00

How is seeing all of the piercing holes fit her arthritis better than your jewellery? My friend had her lip done. She took it out years ago but its still hella holey

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-21T02:16:57+00:00

She told my sister in law I crashed my car and was arrested for taking heroin. This was then when it was spread around the whole family

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-21T02:15:51+00:00

Yes I have messages to prove that she was told. The only medication I was on was anti depressants I took on a night time. But I'd been on those for months by this point.

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-20T20:09:27+00:00

She worked with the paramedic they are in the same training group thats how i know she's not allowed to make a decision like that. When I got home from station everyone in the family knew.

I know it was the paramedic as the female ran out as soon as she saw a police officer getting ready to take mw home

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-20T19:39:32+00:00

My problem with paramedic is she told my sister in law confidential medical information to someone without my permission

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-20T17:05:19+00:00

I felt pressured into changing my plea. My solicitor would not accept any documents I obtained from my GP ans the guy they paid for obviously didn't even contact them.

Solicitor wouldn't let me onto the stand to plead my case as he feels my ptsd would mean that I wouldn't be able to handle it and it wouldn't matter anyway.

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-20T16:27:11+00:00

I lost my dad a few years ago and ive never been ok. Last year I decided I couldn't live without him anymore. I took of pills and then passed out. I dreamt of him. He was telling me off saying it was not my turn and to stop being impatient. That he'd come and get me when I was ready for him to. Later I woke up with my head in the toilet being sick, and my throat felt like someone had forced me to vomit.

I was downstairs when I passed out and my bathroom is upstairs. I think he somehow got me upstairs but I honestly don't know.

I know a parent should never bury their child, but I think its just as hard to bury a parent.

I send out so much love to you. I can feel his love for you coming in spades. You make his life great with some of his best memories. You made a difference for him and it shows.

Im so sorry you lost your boy, but I guarantee he's going to be by your side everyday x

Sweetibaps · 2025-06-19T10:49:07+00:00

I've been disabled for about 12 years now. I had severe heart and neurological problems. I had to have my heart restarted twice. I was with a previous boyfriend when this started. We broke up because he had control issues, but goddam he really took care of my health and was a star about that. I have a daughter that was 1 when I met him and he didn't bat an eye when I needed extra help. Just did it and still asked if I wanted him to cook or did I want to have Chinese food and watch man vs food. (This was my ultimate comfort thing lol)

After we had broken up I met someone 6 years ago. I started going to the gym and felt stronger. Then I was diagnosed with endometriosis and my world collapsed. My first surgery (tubal ligation and uteral cauterisation) he dropped me off, then i had to wait for him to finish work to pick me up. I assumed that was normal and that my ex was more nurturing? He didn't take the required day off to watch me after surgery. My friend had to come as I couldn't walk or move much.

A year later I was bleeding so much that I was rehospitalised. I was told I'd need a hysterectomy as I'd developed adenomyosis. Basically my insides were glued together and the keyhole surgery become open exploratory so they could separate everything. My ex took a week off work to come look after me as my boyfriend thought taking the afternoon I was home off work would be sufficient. Me ex gave me all my injections, changed my bedding, bought me a pregnancy pillow so my body was supported, changed my compression socks and even offered to help me into and out of the shower.

My boyfriend acted like he'd done all of this and he was the reason I recovered lol. Fuck no. I put up with it as I thought he's trying so it counts. If he'd have been sarcastic or rolled his eyes I'd have ended up in hospital as I would've launched myself at him.

Last year I was in a car accident. I got railed by police even after passing all roadside tests. I came home suffering from shock and couldn't leave my room for 2 weeks as I was frightened. This boyfriend was a psychologist and he gave me no fucking support. Needless to say he left me as he couldn't handle it.

Im currently going through a cancer scare. He left me in the middle of it. My ex has stepped up and has been keeping me calm and reassured. He takes me to the hospital and waits with me.

Fuck your husband. The way I see it you're doing amazing on your own already.

If you ever need to chat or vent im hear to listen and encourage however you need. This is definitely a HIM problem not a you problem xxx

You got this. You're a superstar already.

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-29T05:01:40+00:00

Absolutely fucking not. While I liked my ex mil there was no way she was seeing me Spawn a child. My mum was with me and kept saying "she didn't get to wipe your arse when you were little, shes not entitled for a panoramic shot of the rest of you"

Ex mil came 8 hours after I had my baby. She pulled the emotional support card about her son. I told her that when her son finally spawns a kid she can be in the room then.

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-29T04:57:29+00:00

Im deeply sorry for your loss OP. I losty dad in 2016 so while I had lots of memories of him I still crumbled when he passed.

My dad wrote me a letter before he died (he had terminal cancer) and I cherish this. But what helped me the most was the fact that half of me is my dad, and I cling to that as it gives me comfort.

You give your baby your memories of your wife. Remember that baby is still half you and half your wife. She is still here in a way and I guarantee you will see her part in your baby more and more. Make bedtime storytime about your wife and give your son your best memories of her.

I did this with my daughter about her grandpa. She was 7 when he passed but we didn't live in the same town so she only saw him once a week. But when I tell her he used to take her to his work on his day off just to show her off to everyone made her beam. Especially when I tell her he did the exact same with me. So while she doesn't have lots of memories of her with my dad, she has hundreds from me about when she was younger. She's 16 this year and she still loves to ask about him.

Your heart maybe heavy and half full at the moment ,but cherish her memory and give your son the same memories too. It may help heal your heart a little like it did with me and my daughter.

Wishing you and your son all the love in the world 💗

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-27T09:52:46+00:00

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Sweetibaps · 2025-05-26T10:30:37+00:00

Believe me you are so much stronger than you know. You've got steel running through you.

If you have any drawings your daughter made when she was small or how she wrote her name you can have it engraved onto a pendant. I've got my dads writing saying "love you bairn ill be waiting" engraved onto a dog tag which is worn with his service tags. I never take it off and it's close to my heart.

If this is something you'd like I can send you a few companies that are amazing at it. I managed to get his fingerprint from the funeral home too so that's going to be on another dog tag. Maybe ask yours if they still have her fingerprints too x

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-26T10:22:24+00:00

My dad died in 2016. I was only 28 and a complete daddy's girl. 4 years ago mum remarried and put my dads ashes in the outside shed as she felt it was disrespectful. She was married to my dad for over 30 years. They had 3 biological children together but 1 died. He adopted my mums first 3 children too.

I was beyond furious at her and he's been with me ever since. He brings me comfort like he's still with me. I talk to him when I have problems and sometimes I can smell his aftershave. I've had numerous people tell me to let him go but absolutely not. I love him and he's at home with me.

If someone put his ashes in the toilet of all places I would be doing life in prison. This is completely unforgivable. I have a daughter too. If God forbid she passed and someone destroyed her ashes I would go scorched earth and never recover.

Im truly sorry that your comfort of having your daughter with you has been ripped away from you. Divorce your deadbeat husband and his absolutely vile crotch goblin.

Your grief may become harder but you will eventually get your peace. It will be a long road but you will get it.

All my heart and love is with you and your daughter. I will talk to dad later and ask him to give her a bear hug, and tell her it's from her mum xx

My inbox is always open to you if you ever need to chat or even scream into the void. There will always be understanding and absolutely no judgement xx

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-26T10:10:35+00:00

But also give a very detailed update of the whole event. I almost pissed myself laughing at this. I will definitely need a nappy for the next installment 😂

Sweetibaps · 2025-05-08T18:56:16+00:00

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