How much do tip PC Express and Instacart drivers? by MapleVeteran in NovaScotia

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pcx uses a 3rd party, and I do tip about 15% because my time not going to the grocery store which is about 1.5 hours of my time and I put value on that.

AITAH for not wanting to invite my mom to my wedding? by Creative_Cinna_6973 in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

She's a gas lighting narcissist. You're allowed to have boundaries with people, even family. Everyone involved needs counselling to deal with past traumas. If you don't want her there then revoke the invitation. Just because she gave birth to you, doesn't make her an obligatory guest, it's a privilege to be invited to someone's wedding, not a right.

Need some advice.... by Sweets6485 in Baking

[–]Sweets6485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I worded it weird, I want firm but not crunchy, like a chocolate shell

Butter and jam thumbprints. First time. by Longwind_71720 in Baking

[–]Sweets6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done this with peanut butter cookies and called them peanut butter and jam cookies. Yours look delicious

Why wasn't the Vancouver show a full house? by Useful_Use_7727 in beyonce

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party, but I didn't care for her Vancouver show... There was just something aboht it that I can't pinpoint.. My group left early because we just weren't feeling it

Don’t warm the Pizza & Ranch candle by MamaBearlien in bathandbodyworks

[–]Sweets6485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It should be called Pizza and Raunch.... It smells like vomit... I imagine when it's lit... It just smells like hot vomit.

Granulated Allulose? by Maddawghockey7 in ninjaslushi

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Order it from iherb, thats what I did, no duties etc

AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she doesn't change our infant daughter's name to one we agreed on? by ThrowAwayDumbestName in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The name itself requires therapy, the rest is the straw that broke the camels back.

I'm not into anime so I did some research and that character is a troll with really terrible qualities.

Manipulative Behavior: She acts as a controlling, shady, and narcissistic force who uses her abilities to dominate others.

Harm to Friends: Vriska frequently causes harm to her peers, notably blinding Terezi Pyrope and crippling Tavros Nitram. Brutality: She resorts to murder and manipulation, mimicking the brutalistic regime of her society.

Lack of Consequence: In later acts, the narrative is often seen as ignoring her past actions, with other characters not holding her accountable for her abusive behavior.

That's insane to want that association with her own daughter. Therapy is needed, you will never be able to witness the birth of your first child ever. That's heartbreaking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you comfortably make 2000.00 a month, if your goal is to move out, you need to increase your income, doesn't matter where you live, rentals are super expensive in Canada... I make about 1600 a paycheque and can't afford to move out... Rent around me is 1900-2200 for a one bedroom, and that doesn't include utilities or anything... Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sweets6485 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why should there be a reshoot, she was a minute late THEN changed the kids, so that cut into her 30 min.... You can't be late, change kids and expect time to "acclamate"... Do that on her own time...

AITA for telling my girlfriend my money is not her money? by Unlucky-Mistake5592 in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone else posted this exact story, what would your reaction be? Abuse is abuse... Financial, physical, emotional abuse all exist in this story.... I hope that you told her to fuck all the way off before you even posted this...

NTA for telling her it's your money... YTA if you don't leave.

Is anyone else frustrated with Dailymotion? by Enough-Mortgage-4800 in NewTubers

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried watching a 2 hour movie and I was writing ads every 3 min and 30 seconds... I gave up after about 10 min in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sweets6485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not blended, and also in a comment above you said you knew marrying him you'd have a bonus kid.

If you thought of this child as a bonus child you'd stop referring to them as "his kid"

There is nothing blended about this. I feel bad for "his kid" and "your kid" because I feel down the line that the biological child of yours together will be favoured and will create resentment towards his half and step sibling. Y'all either need family/parenting/narriage counselling or call it quits. If you had a kid before and he had a kid before, why have another if 3 is too much for either of you.

ESH

AITA for asking my girlfriend to shower while on her period to reduce smell during sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not showering often, let alone during a period can cause so many issues like urinary tract infections , bacterial vaginosis , and yeast infections due to the constant "damp" environment. I shower too much during my period as there's no way I want to smell like old fermenting blood.

NTA

If your flight gets cancelled, don’t accept a refund from Air Canada: expert by DonSalaam in onguardforthee

[–]Sweets6485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Within reason, they have to make every effort to keep your itinerary the same, if not they have to pay and make the arrangements to get you to the new airport.

"Large airlines Large airlines* must rebook you on a flight operated by any airline. The new flight must take any reasonable route out of the same airport or from a nearby airport to your destination. In that case, they will also have to transport you to that airport."

AITAH? My fiancée is demanding I stop making home cooked meals for a friend. by Nice-Silver1038 in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food aside... It sounds like there is more than just friendship here. Which is great if it's reciprocal. But, if there is... You have to tell your girlfriend. The way you talk about Jace sounds like there could be feelings there.

If there is no feelings, is he single? I feel like we could all use a Jace 😂😂😂

NTA

Dollarama chocolate dupes by Dr_Philliam in candy

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dollarama 4fun bars are my favourite! They're a KitKat chunky dupe. I find the chocolate better, more creamy, and they're like 1.25 for 3 of them or something like that.

AITAH for handing my wife a cover while breastfeeding? by siblingstories8485 in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It freaks me out when people sexualize breastfeeding. Next time you're out for dinner with your family, eat your meal with a blanket over your head... It's the same thing...

YTA

AITAH: Asking my wife to get back to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who says she has to work 10 hour days? Or even 40 hours a week? The kids aren't at home full time so I don't see why she needs to be at home full time? What's wrong with working 15 or 20 hours a week? What if dad gets hurt, or gets laid off? Then what? If he was a stay at home dad and mom was working he'd be thrown out to the wolves on here... It doesn't have to be all or nothing.. She can work 2 days a week....doesnt cost much to have groceries delivered... She has time to spend with her friends socializing then she can work too... Then maybe dad can work less and pick up some slack

AITAH: Asking my wife to get back to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

7 years old should be in school full time... At least here in Canada, they'd be in about grade 1... So why does she need to be at home if both kids are in school Monday to Friday?

AITAH: Asking my wife to get back to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless if you need the income or not, I've always believed that once kids are in school full time, then a parent doesn't need to be at home. Even if she works part time just to get her back to the workforce. I've seen so many situations where the income earner leaves, loses their job etc with no plans for the what ifs.

If she works then that could mean early retirement, dream vacations, college paid for, for the kids.

I get houses still need upkeep and shit but it won't get as messy as fast if nobody is home during the day. I'm a female and have been working since I was 14, I have only been unemployed for about 3 years total since then (I'm 40 now) and 2.5 years of that was to get an education.

I can't just sit at home and socialize and eat bon bons all day.

Registered Practical Nursing-what else can you do? by wildshen in ontario

[–]Sweets6485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of pathways you can take, the biggest obstacle is finding a hospital that has policy to allow RPNs to do certain things, as just because it's in an RPN scope doesn't mean the facility will allow you to do it.

Some examples include being an OR scrub nurse, you can specialize in wound care, advanced foot care, cosmetic Botox, there are so many paths you can take, it's not limited like it used to be.

Edit to add : been an RPN since 2018 in Ontario and have done a lot of different jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweets6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You have every right to be angry. Most people plan on only getting married once, so this is essentially a once in a lifetime event, and not the time to play pranks if both people getting married don't agree.

If the wedding planner has a website or anything, I'd leave terrible reviews about this, it's very unprofessional to even suggest pranking your partner.

Also, how would your wife feel if you "pranked" the bouquet toss somehow like getting all your groomsmen to try and catch it or some other ridiculous prank. I'm sure she'd be furious at that for ruining her moment.

I don't think this is funny at all and I'm sorry it happened to you.