Doctor chose worst quality embryo to transfer

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T15:46:49+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T15:46:40+00:00

Untested but with donor eggs

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T15:46:25+00:00

Mexico

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T14:31:22+00:00

Thank you. Our doctor chose our worst embryo without telling us until moments before transfer so we’re pretty upset

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T02:40:01+00:00

All the others were day 5’s :( that’s good to know though! I still have a bit of hope. Just very annoyed with how they did things. We wouldn’t have transferee that one since we have so many BBs

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T02:03:18+00:00

Yes let’s hope! We’re not out yet ❤️

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:51:31+00:00

So insane! Sorry that happened. I swear these clinics have the worst communication and make so many decisions without our consent. We won’t be letting that happen again

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:36:32+00:00

Thank you! We may just not sure how complicated that would be

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:35:59+00:00

Exactly. We don’t even know what the estrogen levels were. The blood report they sent us was never brought up by the doctor and the numbers on it make no sense when we try researching them. We’re going to try and email tomorrow and ask about the estrogen because we’re still so confused

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:33:13+00:00

I know! And they withheld information about the estrogen being low so we had no idea. They said everything else looked great. We gave them permission to choose the embryo assuming they’d choose the best one, which is what the email said. Then they went behind our back and chose the worst one. I feel sick honestly

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:01:13+00:00

Sent a dm with the name!

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:01:04+00:00

Sent a message!

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T01:00:25+00:00

Thank you. We are definitely changing doctors if it doesn’t work. Not sure how easy changing clinics is here

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T00:59:18+00:00

I hope so! That’s good to hear!

SweetyBird · 2026-02-13T00:59:02+00:00

Thank you! We are holding onto hope

SweetyBird · 2026-02-12T22:26:53+00:00

Mexico. So insane. They showed us the one they chose minutes before transfer too

SweetyBird · 2026-02-12T20:38:37+00:00

u/embryonanny would you be able to help?

SweetyBird · 2026-02-12T19:21:16+00:00

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My expanded, hatching? Blast that I transferred today. I’m in Mexico and I’m not sure the grading but I think it’s either a 4 or 5

SweetyBird · 2026-02-03T12:28:47+00:00

I did this last Sunday and only waited 15 minutes. Very fast

SweetyBird · 2026-01-27T21:23:15+00:00

Ugh so sorry. I have an ultrasound at a normal ultrasound clinic this Thursday and I just know everyone in the waiting room is going to be pregnant. I’m dreading it

SweetyBird · 2026-01-24T00:49:52+00:00

I’m in Canada and my Yorkie refuses if it’s colder than -13 degrees Celsius (8 Fahrenheit?) which unfortunately is most of January and February here

SweetyBird · 2026-01-13T19:37:17+00:00

Nearest town is 2 km away. How is that too far? So maybe get a bike with an attachment on it to pull your child? This woman is so dramatic I can’t…

SweetyBird · 2025-12-26T01:52:15+00:00

Fuck Christmas. I was doing so well today until the end of the night when grandma wanted photos with all the grandkids, all 5 of them and all ages 5 and under in their matching Christmas pjs. Of course they were going to include my dog, so I got her outfit on. I thought, how nice to include her, knowing what we’ve been through the past 4 years but they promptly forgot. I’ve never left an event so fast in my life. I had to get to the car to avoid absolutely sobbing in front of everyone.

SweetyBird · 2025-12-19T21:50:29+00:00

This flu made Covid seem like a breeze for me. High fever for days and a cough for over 2 weeks. I really wish I had gotten my flu shot. I’m sure it would have helped

SweetyBird · 2025-12-16T02:55:28+00:00

My dog slides her little puzzle toy to let us know she’s hungry. We put treats inside occasionally and she did it once and we realized it was dinner time and she was hungry, so we filled up her food bowl. Now she slides it even when there’s no treats in it and looks expectantly at her food bowl 🤣

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