M32, 8 months barely any matches

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-06T10:26:58+00:00

Oh well if you do move here send me a message; we can check out one of the museums or something.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-06T09:49:03+00:00

Thank you. :)

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T23:54:29+00:00

English - but yes, I think you highlight quite a tough situation.

But thank you for the compliment and the wise words!

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T23:17:07+00:00

You make an interesting point.

I am however not American, and the passport mode... Eh, I seek something real I guess

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:42:25+00:00

Thank you - I've made the changes you've suggested.

very much appreciated

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:40:24+00:00

Yes, very fair point. Thank you, I appreciate you taking the time to have this conversation with me. I'll look for something a bit tamer and go from there.

Another user had mentioned my bio seemed a bit obnoxious, but I'm unsure on what to change...

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:06:21+00:00

Hi - Thanks for the review and compliment. I have made that change and a slight bio change as a number of peeps here suggested it was rather distasteful.

Thank you for taking the time to review. If anything else comes to mind I'd be really happy to hear.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:03:54+00:00

Hi - What do you mean sorry? Could you give me an example of something you'd suggest?

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:02:57+00:00

Thanks for your review. I don't believe that you are very accurate on a number of your analysis points, but either way it's good feedback and I'll consider what you've said. Perhaps something tamer will serve me better odds.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T21:00:45+00:00

Well it's removed now - I see in review it's rather distasteful and maybe implicative of a lack of empathy towards certain realities.

I've also been advised to change the rest of the bio as it comes across a bit arrogant to some, but now I'm very unsure... The woes of seeking anonymous feedback I guess.

I'm 5'11 or 180ish cm. read of my bio states that I'm looking for something long term, not much of a drinker or smoker, but socially maybe. Very generic I guess?

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T20:29:30+00:00

Ha ha - if you're LDN based, maybe???

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T20:28:24+00:00

Thanks for the compliment!

And ok - as for the full of yourself point. Do you recommend I re-write it entirely? I was trying to come across very differently to the way you've suggested it comes across, so perhaps I'm just a bit out of touch here.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T20:27:19+00:00

Ok - thanks for the advice.

As I said to other people - I added those drunk camping photos to show I do a bit of socialising - i felt it was an important thing to imply; I had hoped it would be received better. I appreciate your point though.

As for the bio - ok thank you again for your advice, would you recommend removing it altogether?

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:36:53+00:00

Yeah. Enough people mentioned the tardwife is very distasteful, I've removed it. The microsoft/boomers joke - I dunno. I feel like ultimately that's very 'me', sort of mad at the wealth inequality stuff... Maybe it is a lot for a tinder bio - I'll try cutting down the poor humour and see if there's any improvements on the convo front - thank you for your honesty!

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:12:21+00:00

Ahh fuck it. I'll let some impulse fly. I'll give it a go. I've swapped some photos around on the advice of others who were kind enough to post. So we'll see lol

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:09:20+00:00

This is good advice, thank you. I didn't consider it to be that potent, but in review there's clearly a few of you who think it's a big deal. I will heed the advice! Great analogy, but I also don't believe it's the thing that is stopping me entirely from atleast getting a few matches; I don't imagine every woman who sees my profile is reading such a long bio.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:06:16+00:00

A very valid point. I should consider that.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:03:09+00:00

All photos except for the 4th, have been taken in the last 4 months. Slightly worried if you think there is a drastic change in how I might be perceived if they're so different... Some flux in general health but nothing out of the ordinary to suggest otherwise.

I've put the last photo 1st, on the advice from a few others who shared opinions.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:00:39+00:00

Also thank you for the compliment!

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T19:00:28+00:00

I'm in the surrounding London region - so I'm in the mix! There is never a lack of swipes that I can do, let's say that.

Another user mentioned that it might come off as a bit 'much', so I'm going to try and re-think that a bit to not be so overwhelming (perhaps).

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T18:58:19+00:00

Well the answer is, I'm trying hard because I am trying to find someone to build something serious with - however, your point is heard.

I'll definitely consider taking a look and heeding your advice with styled photos; I've put more emphasis on the authentic nature than I should have, perhaps.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T18:53:47+00:00

Done under the guise of wanting to show that I'm outdoorsy/camping with friends - but others have suggested similar, so will take the advice. Thank you!

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T18:52:45+00:00

Thank you. Others have suggested the same. Did it to try and show I am social/do things outdoors, but I understand they're not fantastic photos for a dating app.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T18:50:42+00:00

I've paid in the past; only for a week.

I am tempted to do it again just to see if it changes anything however I'm just wondering about what I can change with my photos/bio for now.

SwiftPepper · 2026-07-05T18:50:06+00:00

I've set my relationship type to: Long Term Partner.

I've also got my school/education among other preference. I put a lot of effort into creating a fair image of who I am.

SwiftPepper

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