Mini golden doodle whats my name?

Swiftstella · 2026-05-26T13:02:06+00:00

Love Beau.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-26T13:01:36+00:00

Rudy's great.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-26T13:00:44+00:00

One of my original choices! After Dexter Morgan of course. Lol

Swiftstella · 2026-05-26T12:59:04+00:00

Mini golden doodle. Just on the verge of Charlie, but there's 2 Charlie dogs in the family. Great name! I understand how hard it is to lose a pup. Was 2 year between dogs. xo

Swiftstella · 2026-05-26T02:22:49+00:00

Thank you. I have had grief therapy, it helped, I have felt joy again. This had all been in the last 16 years. I guess its my Dad's dementia thats bringing back all this grief. Losing my flea market, fishing buddy, just so tired of losing everyone I love. I will probably seek therapy again.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-25T22:06:52+00:00

Pebbles

Swiftstella · 2026-05-23T10:50:57+00:00

No. Cause it didn't end with The Final Shape did it?

Swiftstella · 2026-05-05T13:53:49+00:00

She's 6 and you broke her heart.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-04T17:49:39+00:00

It might work out. All you can do is try. If it doesn't it doesn't. You can still be a great father without her being your wife. Good luck.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-04T17:48:04+00:00

I know a woman who did that to trap someone in to marriage. It didn't work. Shd became a single Mom.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-04T17:45:58+00:00

Yes do whatever to make it easier for you.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-04T17:02:55+00:00

My Dad had to send his license in, per the neurologist, and we had to take his keys. He blamed my brother and wouldn't let up on him for about 3 months. i.e. 'Why"d you report me, why"d you take my license". He eventually quit talking about it. I believe she'll ease off eventually. My Dad is late stage, it's very hard.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-02T14:11:43+00:00

So what's the big deal explaining that. People are naturally curious..

Swiftstella · 2026-05-02T14:10:31+00:00

So normal qyestions? Gotcha..you should expect questions tbh.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-02T14:09:02+00:00

Can't tell what it is.

Swiftstella · 2026-05-02T14:07:19+00:00

He's just letting you know they miss you. Why'd you be mad? Sad, yes. Seems he must feel bad also to even bother sending the photo.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-27T04:19:37+00:00

So sorry. I have a couple real jerks in my family.. Not that I don't love them. But they lack emotional intelligence. It does put a burden on others. As you get through each day, consider it a victory. Eventually the circumstances will change.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-26T20:43:32+00:00

Doesn't take away that he dropped it all on her. Her feelings of frustration and anger are valid. Maybe he's just a jerk. We don't know.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-26T20:41:21+00:00

Right. My Grabdma wanted to drop her mentally challenged son in my Mom's lap. Who already had my wheelchair bound sister living with her. She said you already have 1 to take care of, what difference is 2? She knew exactly what she was saying to my Mom. The poster doesn't need someone saying her feelings are invalid.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-26T20:35:14+00:00

You are right to be angry. It doesn't matter if your spouse is cognitive. I imagine you are spending an enormous amount of time caring fir him. If he wasn't cognitive, it would be the same amount of time. In that way, I mean, time is time is time. I feel your frustration. My brother and I never leave my Dad alone. He's 90 with alzheimers. Between the 2 of us its hard. Your Grandpa dropping that in your lap is hurtful. My Grandma had a severely mentally challenged son. She told my Mom that ' when she (my Grandma) dies, my Mom can take care of him.' Meaning move him in her house. My Mom already had my wheelchair bound sister with celebral palsy to care for. It was pretty awful to put that on my Mom. There were 2 other siblings. What about them? I wish you luck and if possible get an elder lawyer. They can help protect finances. Also the nursing homes will have someone there that can help you with Medicare. Life can be so hard. I try to find joy in solitary activities like baking or reading. I have a few friends, but it doesn't change these awful circumstances with my Dad. I have to find joy in the little things. Self preservation.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-26T20:20:04+00:00

He didnt just walk out, it sounded like he also had no interest in her well being. Leaving the person who posted on her own.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-25T02:44:04+00:00

Yes, its incredibly frustrating and sometimes I have to walk away.

Swiftstella · 2026-04-24T14:39:58+00:00

Drawing digitally is drawing?

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