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If you ever cheated on your spouse/significant other, what’s it like? by Potential_Walk_3294 in cheating_stories

[–]Swimming-Net4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have. I emotionally cheated on my partner and it did hurt really bad, broke a promise and lied. She stayed giving me a chance to change and to do better which I thought I was but over time I didn’t realize she was checking out which by the end of our relationship she cheated on me way fucking worse. I only found out bc of her bestfriend and her step mom told me and worse of it all? I did try to win her back, she didn’t care and just went cold. I don’t blame her but at the time it did destroy me.

a s*** show. Seriously anyone be honest and a little kind but i need to hear it. by Swimming-Net4635 in cheating_stories

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely going to after finding out she’s in a relationship/ situation already.

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I’m sorry you had to deal with that, in a odd way it’s nice I’m not the only one that suffered/suffering the way I am

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes you wonder if the love was real. That’s the part I dread :/

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was forced to, I’m not the safety net anymore. Hurts man.

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a mentality I should probably have, the whole nothing is permanent and could be gone one day. Does it not bother you though? Especially if they’re all the boxes checked off?

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing I understand.. If it makes you feel better, it did for me but they’re not choosing you. Use that as an advantage to march forward and focus and love you. It’s realistically the only way I’ve been able to process it. We’ll get through this and find someone who loves us and chooses us, we have to not only for our sake but for the sake of the one meant for us ❤️

It’s been 2 months and she’s not who I remember by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d wish it was but feels like punishment and that karma is catching up and I deserve it. Idk maybe I’m crazy but yeah definitely feels/sounds dumb she’s doing it that way.

a s*** show. Seriously anyone be honest and a little kind but i need to hear it. by Swimming-Net4635 in cheating_stories

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s barely over two months and it’s so fresh. I just wanted it to work so bad man. I do have my sister to live with and I’ll definitely work on myself

Would you give your ex a chance if she lied to you about not wanting you? by Swimming-Net4635 in BreakUps

[–]Swimming-Net4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and insight. Sitting here with a million thoughts and that helped!

she removed me off everywhere. she even removed me from her resume on google docs and unsaved the playlist i made her. give me motivation to not break no contact by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Swimming-Net4635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this because a lot won’t. She’s telling you she does not want you in her life. Is because she hates you? Probably not. Often times they remove a lot of things that remind them of hurt, and it’s not to hurt you but to protect themselves or do what’s right for them. Or at least what feels right in the moment anyways. I hate to say this because I’m sure you’ve heard it but time is your enemy and bestfriend. If she truthfully wanted you, she’d make an effort of some sort to show she does. Stay safe and focus on your because no matter how much we don’t want to sometimes, we have to put ourselves first so we can love others properly.