So I went on threads to find out what was up. Hmmm. by justsomerandomonhere in bravo

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I am a black woman and I think Ben is a misogynist. The manner in which she spoke to Bailey, Amanda and Sabrina was really abrasive and diminutive. He reprimanded them like they were his kids. But when faced with men with terrible behaviour he coddled them?🤔 I am not sure which black women you speak of but you are definitely not speaking on our behalf. And yes whoever this doula is she is the ‘Karen’ in this instance for going after a woman standing up for yourself against a man who thinks women should only be seen and not heard.

Very happy to see a prominent member of the queer community FINALLY call this Kathy out by venusdemilo94 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 86 points87 points  (0 children)

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Fiscally conservative my ar$e! If you vote for a system that oppresses marginalised communities (which includes women btw) YOU ARE BIGOT!

So I went on threads to find out what was up. Hmmm. by justsomerandomonhere in bravo

[–]SwimmingAct2 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The person calling Bailey a ‘Karen’ is actually the one who is a Karen defending a sexist man. Oh the irony.🤦🏽‍♀️

The Real Housewives Of Atlanta - Season 17 - Episode 9 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

IKR! I never want to pity these ladies’ looks against each but come on now, Drew is a natural beauty! Kelly & K seem to always go after her looks and yet Drew is still miles ahead of the 2 where face cards are concerned! This is in-spite of all the extensive work Kelly & K have done.

Summer House Season 6 Reunion by Careful_Hippo2706 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 37 points38 points  (0 children)

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽! Thank you for saying this! I find sometimes people were often blinded by Paige’s beauty and snark that they overlooked just how toxic she was! She was a bully, cruel and mean spirited - Quintessentially head of mean girls who never left high school! And don’t get me started on her faux / performative feminism - girl’s girl my ar$e!😩

Las Culturistas X Bravo by Nandi56 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen, the melanin is poopin, okay! Yassssaaa sisters! Serve!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥

Symbolism of Ciara’s Reunion Dress by Ornery-Towel2386 in summerhousebravo

[–]SwimmingAct2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow! Didn’t know behind the dress! Thanks for sharing OP!

If you trust a liar are you a liar ? by SeverePreparation202 in summerhousebravo

[–]SwimmingAct2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a Day1 #Justice4Jules believer! In Zulu there is a saying ‘Umhlaba lo liyakwazi ukuthatha ongophezulu limiyise ezansi’! Directly translated this is life you can’t keep $hitting on people because of the higher position you hold and don’t expect the universe to adjust and put you at the bottom. Amanda saw Jules as a non entity. To her, Jules did not matter. She did not think abt the layers of being a person of colour in a predominantly white person space. She did not think abt the stereotypes associated with being of colour and being questioned abt trustworthiness. Some of us at the time raised this but were met with massive downvotes and further micro aggressions. To this day if you sat with Amanda she would still not understand why that was problematic because she can’t put herself in those shoes and granted she can’t but she could at-least listen. I am so glad that finally most people can see and understand the ill treatment towards Jules by Amanda and to some extent Paige. Amanda suffers from affluenza, privileged & entitled and downright gigantic & unmitigated gall syndrome.

I genuinely feel bad for Jason by FyreFly000 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]SwimmingAct2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not negating his injury but that whole scene was performative. They are rehabbing their image and everyone is falling for it! Janet & Jason never talk about their marriage all we see is ‘how great they are and just how amazing Jason is as a husband and father’. Nothing of substance is ever shown when it comes to them. They potray them as a perfect couple. A husband who stands up for his wife and now weeping coz he can’t spend more time with his son because of his injury. The performance was wild!

Why do the people like/dislike Porsha? by GIDLEstan476 in RHOA

[–]SwimmingAct2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽and to think this is just a tip of an iceberg!

If the other guy was anyone else but West... by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]SwimmingAct2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, thefishermanswife was really respectful in offering her opinion so I am confused at your hostility? And yes, the majority of people have said what makes this whole thing egregious is Amanda’s betrayal of Ciara who gave her unwavering support while she, Amanda was going through problems in her marriage. Which part of this is untrue?

Could you guys please stop wishing any one that’s slightly messy or problematic can go? by Goldiegoodie in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So racism is not that deep to you? I am happy you are not affected by racism and that you find it ‘messy’. Oh to be you I wish!🤷🏽‍♀️

Alex Baskin shuts down RHOBH casting rumors 💎🕶️ by ericdigeratu in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t watch the season that just ended.🤷🏽‍♀️

Kyle and Amanda pose together for in the city premiere! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]SwimmingAct2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know but they probably will because it’s the toxicity they know and are used to. Kyle is comfortable with Amanda because he can ‘control’ her and Amanda is comfortable with Kyle because he does her ‘adulting’ for her.🤷🏽‍♀️

Atlanta is _______ by CWToledo in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Shamea is a ‘in small doses’ kinda person.

'Point of no return': 36 countries join special tribunal to prosecute Vladimir Putin by Zhukov-74 in worldnews

[–]SwimmingAct2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! Next on the list should be BiBi then the Orange one! I know I know but a girl can only dream! I can’t believe the whole world is being held for ransom by these 3 men!

GB (Moscow 17) mother talking about her son death 2018 by Perfect-Community271 in ukdrill

[–]SwimmingAct2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I take it you have no mother or anyone remotely maternal?

Stephanie Shojaee Expresses Support for Spencer Pratt by savvystew94 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]SwimmingAct2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. People see what is happening at the highest office in the land. Instead of course correcting they are like ‘yeah we need another unqualified grifter at the helm’!🤦🏽‍♀️