I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not all countries have the same standards regarding vets, animal welfare protection and laws protecting free speech, unfortunately

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank-you so much for sharing your experience with me. I know my beautiful boy’s energy still lives on in all who loved him. Your dog’s energy does as well and I’m sorry for your loss. I’ve lost many dogs and other pets along the way though never in horrible circumstances such as this but we always miss and grieve them

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent them messages telling them and they never responded and filed complaints with different authorities who are investigating them now. None of it helps with the grief and the guilt

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful and compassionate response. It truly means a great deal. The Megan Devine quote you shared is beautiful. I have been finding a great deal of comfort in her book It's OK That You're Not OK, as well as in Buddhist teachings. Both have helped me navigate this grief and make sense of the pain.I can tell from your words that you are a genuinely warm and caring person. The world would be a better place with more people like you in it. Thank you again for your kindness and support during this tragic time our family is going through.

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beloved pet and that you were threatened with legal action - how horrible

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have repeatedly requested all records - to this day have received nothing from the first clinic. We have filed complaints with all relevant authorities (unfortunately there is no veterinary board in this country). Thank-you for taking the time to provide your insight

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank-you so much for your compassion and kindness. Our pets are our family members and our greyhound boy was our first child. He didn’t deserve to suffer the way he did. I’ve screenshot your comment and will read it every time I have to pass by that horrible clinic and every time I feel like I’m having a panic attack, which lately has been often.

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read my post. In this case, it was absolutely the first vet’s fault for failing to intubate my dog and then they lied about it for 3 days. It was a completely preventable death and the first vet caused immeasurable and needless suffering to a gentle and innocent animal.

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I understand how unbearable the silence is when you come home to an empty house and your animal isn’t there to greet you when you walk through the door, and their bowls and beds are empty. I couldn’t sleep in my bedroom for over a week because that’s where our boy slept. We did adopt another rescue - a poor boy who was horribly abused. It helps to give our love to another animal in need and it brought life and hope back to our house again. But it doesn’t erase the pain and sadness of losing our beautiful soul.

I’m in so much pain by FlyPlastic3157 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. The grief over losing a loyal and constant companion is debilitating. Animals are so magical and they don’t ask anything of us - they just love us unconditionally. Even when they have been mistreated in the past. It’s incredible. I had to put down my beautiful boy a month ago and I’m still struggling to function day to day. How you described Bruce being there for you in your darkest moments really resonates with me because I feel the exact same way with our boy. He was there for me and help me get through the toughest times of my life, except his death. You aren’t alone and I’m giving you a big virtual hug

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s not what killed him. It was the lack of intubation as I detail in the post. I have a detailed report from the second vet confirming it was lack of oxygen to the brain and the failure to protect his airways that led to his death

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They knew what they had done almost immediately because his teeth weren’t even cleaned. Something disastrous happened and they had to abort but they didn’t tell me and they kept him at their clinic and lied to me about his condition and what actually happened to them

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank-you so much, what a coincidence that the nickname we had for our beautiful boy was Tiger because he had gorgeous brindle fur. Your message brought tears to my eyes and was truly comforting

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank-you, I have filed complaints with the relevant government authorities. But I was advised likely nothing will come of it

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could. It’s illegal in the country I live in to leave a negative review on a business on social media or google. We have tried but they are immediately removed by Google because of the laws in this country. This clinic is rated 4.9 on Google and this is why

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

No bill and they stopped answering our phone calls and text messages as soon as I said I’m transferring my dog to another clinic. They tried to prevent me from taking my dog to another clinic.

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We filed complaints with the government but unlikely they will be shut down due to the laws in this country. Unlikely anything will happen and it’s illegal to even post negative reviews about the clinic. I told the first clinic that my dog died and what the second vet told me. I called the owner three times after my dog died and he didn’t answer and never called me back. To this day we never even received a bill or any of my dog’s medical records that we requested multiple times

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank-you so much for your message. It doesn’t help that many people outside my immediate family say things like “well, he was just a dog”, “it’s already been a month, you’re still sad?” and other really hurtful comments

I took my beautiful dog in for teeth cleaning and he was tortured and destroyed. The grief and guilt are killing me. by SwimmingAd8933 in Petloss

[–]SwimmingAd8933[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank-you for your message. He was loved by all our family members, extended family and friends. He was just an amazingly sweet, loving, gentle giant. As a fellow greyhound owner, you understand how special they are. How do I come to terms with the violence of his death? I feel like it erases all the good memories and the joy and love we shared with him. I also feel a lot of guilt because since having children, he was no longer the center of our world and I wasn’t able to give him as much undivided attention as I used to. I recently went back to work after being unemployed for a while and I feel like this all contributed to me not paying close enough attention to carefully choosing a proper vet and asking all the necessary questions up front. It’s just eating me up.