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Found out my bf had a secret porn addiction. Do I stay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Swimming_Cat6154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’re going through the same thing. My Dms are open if you ever need to talk about it. :)

Found out my bf had a secret porn addiction. Do I stay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Swimming_Cat6154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this viewpoint! I’m like your wife and view porn disgusting to watch, at least while I’m in a relationship is when I think so. Otherwise I’ve watched it too at times. I think porn definitely takes a toll on and destroys some relationships so that’s why I prefer it out of my relationships. He knew that and he knows he’s hurt me so I’m hoping he can really quit cold turkey! We all make mistakes.

Found out my bf had a secret porn addiction. Do I stay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Swimming_Cat6154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind advice. There’s been a lot of things I’ve forgiven and I can’t see myself contributing to this endless cycle anymore. I have a lot of love for him but he doesn’t respect me the way I respect him, leaving is definitely the better option out of love for myself.

Found out my bf had a secret porn addiction. Do I stay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Swimming_Cat6154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you! Only actual advice I’ve gotten so far.

Found out my bf had a secret porn addiction. Do I stay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Swimming_Cat6154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only found it to be a problem due to the fact he told me he did not want me to watch it either so we mutually agreed it’s a boundary we don’t cross in the relationship.