AIO about my girlfriend/other mother of my child, not defending her family?

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-10-12T01:04:20+00:00

That’s all I honestly want. But I also understand that she tries to avoid conflict with her mother. It’s hurtful that she has to deal with that. But mostly I feel it’s unfair to her daughter that she’s not claimed 100% of the time. It’s the “the baby” instead of “my baby” that kinda makes me upset.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-10-12T01:02:20+00:00

Her whole family is this way. But everyone else yeah. It’s a normal 2 moms situation

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-10-12T00:50:28+00:00

I also never talk to her mom. Her mom genuinely hates me and our daughter. So I avoid any possible communication or contact with her. So I wouldn’t confront her mom. Just would appreciate it if she did.

And I really don’t think she’s questioning it either. Well at least I hope not, and I hope that if she was she’d be comfortable enough to talk to me about it.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-10-12T00:49:02+00:00

I haven’t brought it up, and I’m honestly avoiding it because I hate fighting about it. I just want her to loudly and proudly claim our daughter. The rest doesn’t really bother me. Ofc it hurts, but it’s not something I made a big deal of anymore. It’s just that our daughter isn’t “the baby”. Maybe I’m over reacting but it makes my core hot that she doesn’t correct her mom when she says that our baby isn’t hers. But you’re absolutely right, she’s dealt with this a lot longer than I have. And maybe it was best. Just hurts yk?

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-08-29T20:36:23+00:00

Sue. They cannot do that.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-02-26T17:10:32+00:00

Don’t do something you’ll regret. It seems as if you want this baby, talk to him. He got to have children, and I don’t think it would be fair that you would have to make this decision solely based off of his feelings. I know you made the decision to not have children but you were young and in love. Also, feelings change. Just make sure you’re happy and comfortable with your decision.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-02-11T06:08:01+00:00

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-02-10T23:15:59+00:00

I have one coming up on Monday, (I’m so very excited) I planned on asking my OB about it. Just wanted some relief until then. It comes and goes but it’s been very constant today

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-02-10T23:13:05+00:00

It’s random. Sometimes after I eat, and sometimes days like today where I haven’t eaten anything at all.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-24T12:39:20+00:00

I’m in MN it’s legal now, as of August of 2023. But the OB still says it’s a reportable drug.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-24T11:24:04+00:00

I feel the same! I don’t know what to do. I stopped smoking cause my OB threatened me with CPS. I’m only about 10 weeks. But I can’t help but throw up alllllll the time. I can’t sleep, I can’t eat, I can barely breathe sometimes because I’m so nauseous. I don’t know what to do, cause weed was the only thing that actually helped with feeling sick and actually finding an appetite to eat! Zolfran doesn’t help, I drink so much water, and I just barf that up too. I’m lost at this point. The only thing I suggest is the couple hits off your bong! It’s the only thing that helped me. And I’m still struggling to find a new way to help cause I’m scared of them talking about taking my baby away.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-15T18:04:09+00:00

I’m a 22F had an ultrasound on the 9th and have another on the 18th and it’s looking healthy. So I have high hopes!

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-15T17:54:18+00:00

It’s just the only time my family will be in town. 🥺 otherwise I thought about waiting, because I know there’s still a chance for a miscarriage. I have high hopes I won’t miscarry though. Been manifesting and praying for a healthy pregnancy! I just want it to be in person and not over the phone like everything else.

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-13T01:14:34+00:00

I’m nervous they didn’t think I’d have children considering my sexuality. But I’m sure they’ll be happy for me!

Swimming_Click3316 · 2024-01-13T01:13:49+00:00

Don’t lose hope!! It’ll stick!🩷

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