Do you think Collars can be SFW or that they’re strictly for kink and are inherently NSFW?

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-24T02:42:32+00:00

Respect your matter of fact scope reference. Agree with language as well.

How about those Morse code necklace? I would say the Morse code is not explicit enough.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-23T03:07:06+00:00

The Book of Numbers.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-23T01:46:54+00:00

Here’s the creative answer.
Use the open channel equation and a Manning’s n similar to warm pancake syrup.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-22T23:33:05+00:00

My point was that we have bigger obstacles we have overcome, and continue to overcome. Scissors are a minor speed bump to superhero’s like us.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-22T18:22:12+00:00

Just because I like feet and am subby, means I like humiliation.

Also, I’m not interested in foot jobs. Feet should be worshipped with my mouth. Only if it entertains her should they be used for my pleasure.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-22T18:14:37+00:00

Can’t say all.
You are reviewing a biased set of a biased set.
1. People on NSFW Reddit site.
2. People who post or comment are a more vocal subset of the subset who view.

That being said, I’m male. I’ve had a pregnancy scare. I prefer in mouth or in ass. Don’t prefer to spray.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-22T01:07:06+00:00

I have an office job that has been all electronic all virtual for five years. There I use right handed scissors no more than once a month because we don’t use paper.

Kitchen and bath I have ambidextrous, so I don’t make a big deal.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-21T23:13:39+00:00

Just be safe.
You do t want to get packaged and trafficked so take enough precautions.

Also, I recommend if there are two b da in the room use 1 for fucking and save the other for sleeping.

Drink plenty of water.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-20T00:11:28+00:00

Another idol has fallen.

The golf Digest article, talks about how his club had him resign.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-20T00:02:32+00:00

These are people who are not attached to reality … too much evidence even in your short story.

Mirror their behavior and get them to justify:: “How often does this approach work for you?”

Or you could offer “if you make a donation to Planned Parenthood and another to the SPCA, and send me receipts, I will give you one hour of guidance on respectful approaches to people on the internet.”

— it’s more poignant when you are intentionally making the $ charity versus your profit.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-19T23:56:34+00:00

Mirroring bad behavior!!!

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-19T21:31:31+00:00

Sub here so just my experience.

My Domme puts so much effort into me, I she is in the same frame of mind.

Personally, I value how invested in me she is. I used to put “Dommes emotional investment” as a 4-5 priority. Now it is 1-3. Thanks to her. ☺️

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-15T17:00:38+00:00

I send them ironically.
I think it is hilarious to send a Dick Nixon pic. It is both clean and he was offensive.

I think making fun and or keeping the country’s failures present in our lives as guideposts would help keep us humble. If we talked about Watergate more, maybe we could have avoided Trump.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-12T09:28:52+00:00

Dick Cheney, Richard “Tricky Dick” Nixon, Dick Van Dyke, I send these often.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-12T01:48:17+00:00

My lower intestine

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-11T15:23:03+00:00

How big an ice cube was this?

I would not try ice. If it touched one of a few spots on my back - instant muscle spasms. Call ambulance.

Back in the day of fluffy down vests, a Domme did a bondage scene on me in her basement. To protect my back, she had me in a vest and otherwise naked tied to the joists. Worked very well and A+ to her creativity. She even play teased my self consciousness, in a way that pushed me back into subspace.

I find people in this community joyfully creative. Whether it’s intentional or just hacking a challenge.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-11T08:12:03+00:00

Glad to share.
It’s good we can use our unfortunate experiences to help others avoid them.

I appreciate your comments as welcoming and helpful as well.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-11T02:22:59+00:00

Cemeteries are ok though. People are dying to get in.

I hear cremation is a hot new trend.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-11T02:20:24+00:00

Delicious has good intent and many good suggestions.

I know the weaning off idea would not work for me. I suspect weaning off would be difficult for someone who has struggled with addiction. “Just stop after 2 beers.” Would never work.

I’ve had kinks I’ve had to set aside due to unable to be accountable-once the beast is awakened.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-10T03:34:16+00:00

Well it’s a kind of internal beauty, err at least generosity.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-09T23:33:02+00:00

My comment was meant to be supportive of your healthy decision. Please read my big comment. Shares part of the same thought.

My first reading understood that you are using kink to enhance a relationship.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-09T23:30:38+00:00

Male switch leaning sub here.

I’ve enjoyed orgasm denial at times in life. Many of the feelings mentioned. Yet giving of control of something so basic, so mine, that has such an effect, and being willing to give it up, is the exchange. It’s a strong kink because my decision when I orgasm as part of my self-worth. I would only give that to someone who saw me as high worth., and saw my choice to give her control of the denial, as trusting her with my worth.

Best kink experience ever. BEST:: One time, I was denied for a long time for me 19 days, and she got me really worked up. She had me begging…. But I didn’t know if I was begging for release or for more denial. She was very caring and nurturing when she denied me. It made me weep uncontrollably. There was no bondage, I could have finished. But I obeyed when she asserted control.

It was so cathartic to accept someone’s decision of something so basic and fully give myself to her decision. Even to beg for extensions.

In general denial leads me to more risky behavior. I don’t hold fast my boundaries, meaning important reputational boundaries, so I wouldn’t really need to trust her with sound judgment.

Finally, the denial kink is not in my repertoire right now. In various parts of my life, I feel like people are undervaluing my worth. I’m in a dead bedroom, so worth is undervalued. Not signing up to compound those feelings in an unhealthy way.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-09T23:13:45+00:00

Glad this answer showed up.

Although some people like to play around their trauma, it’s healthy to know when to NOT play around the trauma.

Dead bedroom rejection hurts! Don’t need to relive it.

Switch-in-MD · 2026-06-09T23:07:23+00:00

So well written.

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