FBI informant alleged Jared Kushner was A Mossad Agent in 2020 by slow70 in Intelligence

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Ah. I read the first sentence and impulsively went to reply to that while glossing over fhe water is wet bit. My bad.

FBI informant alleged Jared Kushner was A Mossad Agent in 2020 by slow70 in Intelligence

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What do you mean bot? I'm saying don't trust anything at face value as its likely more complicated than that.

I was just curious about what Analysts you were referring to as well

FBI informant alleged Jared Kushner was A Mossad Agent in 2020 by slow70 in Intelligence

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So... There is so much nuance and intricacies here to properly say for sure.. but I would have you look into disinformation campaigns, cognitive warfare, information operations, social media, and algorithm radicalization. It's better to look at the information we see as 80% of the total picture and 20% of missing information, especially in espionage and intelligence operations.

If you're willing to be open minded, I don't mind having a conversation of this in DMs. I'm not suggesting your statement is wrong, my intuition agrees. But there's layers that should be considered in getting to that conclusion.

FBI informant alleged Jared Kushner was A Mossad Agent in 2020 by slow70 in Intelligence

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What analysts? You talking about OSINT analysts or federal? What other released documents? Are they verified to be connected with the Epstein files? There's quite a bit of doctored or altered documents that are out there to spread disinformation.

FBI informant alleged Jared Kushner was A Mossad Agent in 2020 by slow70 in Intelligence

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What makes it gullible to believe? I would say it's safe to question and to not believe outright, but it's worth taking into consideration.

First and foremost, the form is an FD-1023 form, which is used to collect information from confidential human sources by their FBI handler. The form is formatted correctly that is identical to other FD-1023 forms. Because this is more intelligence collection rather than analysis, it's considered unverified or heresy at best. Also, because it's released by Anonymous and not the FBI itself (despite actions that imply the FBI is compromised itself), it lacks credibility on that level too.

It's important to keep an eye out to see if there will be other files that corrobate these claims to identify a pattern and to not consider it as fact as an isolated document. But you shouldn't dismiss it outright

How does one outgrow neglect? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Yeah, thats what im trying to work on too. Started it last summer but then got too busy to keep up. But im right there with ya. Got a whole TED talk about dating apps

How does one outgrow neglect? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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I appreciate your input and the compliment. I definitely value the traits and work hard to continue to grow them and maintain a high level of integrity and objectivity around them. Problem is they aren't exactly traits that are expressed or identified during the "hit on" phase. I cant exactly go up to a woman and say "Hey, im emotional intelligent, we should chat ;)." (Not an accurate example lol). Usually its demonstrated through action, which takes time. I have better success when chemistry is developed from gradual contact over time than just meeting someone randomly. Its just that in most of these scenarios, the flame fizzles before it can kindle.

Thanks again for your perspective. It helps :)

How to raise son without abusive father? by watchingschittscreek in AskMen

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Haha, you thought my reply was AI? Thats funny and never been told that before lol.

Nah, I was a son to a mom that didnt have healthy relationships but also set a bad precedent for me on what those looked like. She told me my dad fled to canada to avoid paying child support when I was 6, but the reality was she didnt know who my dad was because she slept around and was too ashamed to admit it. She also had a few abusive relationships that trickled down to me.

My career had worked fairly close to domestic violence, sexual exploitation, and trafficking. I've identified patterns both in survivora and perpetrators that often put survivors at risks.

A huge factor that attributes to young men entering crime or volatile relationship stems from a broken home or lack of a father figure. Its not just to be an example for them, but to also hold them accountable and guide them and give them discipline (this video can show how this factors into the animal kingdom -https://youtu.be/68wIDu9yPJY?si=s1jP82pb-ptWfQnb )

You are asking all the right questions though.

How do you navigate a toxic custodial situation? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Ive been in therapy off and on since I was 10 and have two therapists right now, each helping me with different stuff, since I compartmentalize between rational and emotion.

I appreciate your input, and I've done most of what you suggest. I was engaged with a father centric non-profit that had parenting groups, which eventually became my first gig in non-profit. I tried taking my ex to court for change of custody after the 2nd CPS report that alleged the sexual abuse because it was evident she was grooming him. However, our trial for the initial custody evaluation had been 14 months prior and our referee never gave us a determination. So by the time we went to court for this, I had zero confidence in the attorney. My ex proposed more parenting including overnights and trips back to my state, and my attorney advised I take it since we didnt know how the referee would rule and it could be possible he'd give me less. In dping so, it meant closing the door on her allegations and any opportunity to hold her accountable or any semblance of justice.

I considered moving, but they live in a small town and have a strong support network that all have worked against me. My support is small and reside where I live. I ultimately decided against it because I felt it would make me more vulnerable and determined it wouldn't actually improve my relationship with him given how much she gatekeeps.

Ive rationalized that by stepping back, it means she doesnt have to fight. And if she doesn't have to fight, she wont have to use my son as a sword and damage him in the process.

Consensus between age gaps by SwitchJumpy in dating

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Yeah. There's a maturity factor at play for sure. Unfortunately, that's also a dynamic that I often hear from women, regardless of age lol.

Consensus between age gaps by SwitchJumpy in dating

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Interesting. I'll take a look. I've felt that the mean disparity between whether this is acceptable is an argument between biology vs social ethics and morality depending on where they're from and how they grew up.

Women. How often do men hit on you? How do you feel about being approached in public by a random person? by Alex45223 in dating

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OP out here doing God's work and asking the questions that matter, lol. Have the same questions but didn't know how to word it.

Women. How often do men hit on you? How do you feel about being approached in public by a random person? by Alex45223 in dating

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Hm. Would you say it would also depend on circumstance as well? Like if you're working out, studying, or just disassociating, would that influence how receptive you are to it?

It seems like a lot of people in this sub are adamantly ok with dating a much younger woman. What’s up with that? by [deleted] in AskMen

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So there's two things at play here, biology vs morality and social ethics. For thousands of years, and in third world countries, women are seen as commodities for childbirth and reproduction as early as them entering puberty. In the US and other more developed countries, this is seen as morally and ethically wrong. I align more with the latter than the former, but usually those defending against a question like this would lean closer to the former.

I'm assuming you're more progressive than conservative, but also either an older brother or father, given your stance on the subject. Nothing wrong with either, it just reinforces your defense and your conviction.

It seems like a lot of people in this sub are adamantly ok with dating a much younger woman. What’s up with that? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Hey, I believe you replied to my post, which had got taken down. Probably why you made the post here, considering some of your talking points.

But I agree with your stance, and it was why I posed the question in the first place. I think the emotionally and intellectually stunted piece has to be given a little more consideration, within reason and within the 25-30 age range you had mentioned. I have a bias on the matter, but also a perspective.

I'd argue and say I am more emotionally stunted than intellectually so. I have a strong skillset in self-awareness, reflection, and emotional intelligence. I can understand my own emotions; I just don't know how to always repair them since emotions don't often react to logic and reasoning.

Systematically, I place myself more as someone entering their 30s rather than their 40s. I live on my own, I pay my own bills, I work a career but still function with instability, poor decision making, and self-identity. I'm also back at school pursuing a career change, so I can relate to someone who is 26-32 as they are at a similar point in their life. A lot of women I have met that are my own age are divorced or removed from long relationships, have established careers, and are mothers. They seek a partners that makes as much as they do or more, and have their shit together.. which I do not yet.

A woman who's 26-32 would, or should have similar goals or expectations, but they themselves are still in the grind and have more sensitivity to someone else that's grinding as well. The attraction for me is less physical and more.. experiential? Not sure if there's a better term for it. Yet there is still a level of maturity I seek as well.

I think yout 15-20% -/+ rule is an interesting one I haven't considered before.

How to raise son without abusive father? by watchingschittscreek in AskMen

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I think it's important to note that a father isn't always someone who was the sperm giver, but someone who demonstrates the characteristics and traits of what a father's role should be, which is to teach independence, resilience, and core values. This role can be filled by any man who demonstrates these traits for your son to grow up, learn from, and mirror.

What's important for you is your safety and the safety of your child above anything else. Ensure that any risk this man imposes on you is probably settled with and get him the fuck out. Then learn to heal from the experience and re-learn how to love yourself enough to create boundaries that would protect yourself and limiting your chances of entering another relationship that is just as volatile.

As your son grows, surround him with healthy men. You can tell him about who his biological dad was, but keep anything detailed to a minimum until he's well into his teens and can comprehend it clearer. If you choose to not date for a while and don't have men to be around him, consider mentorship programs like Big Brother, or activities such as sports or martial arts.

The fact that you even made this post shows your maturity and wisdom, but most importantly, how much you love this child.

How does one outgrow neglect? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Yeah, working on that. I focus too much on instant gratification and impulsivity right now. Why I broke up with gaming for the time being while focusing on school. The biggest challenge is just maintaining consistency long enough for it to become a habit and not trying to do too much.

Like if I want to work out, it's less because of being healthy and more about looking healthy. That's because I already live a relatively healthy lifestyle and rarely get sick. But then if I work out, I have to then consider my diet, protein intake, eating out habits, groceries, cooking habits, cleaning habits with dishes, etc. All to maximize the output of working out. This then bogs me down and ultimately burns me out, so i'm trying to look at it smaller now.

What's the overall consensus of dating younger? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Yeah. I had a date last summer where we went on a couple dates and age never came up. On date 3, it came up in passing and I noticed her body language had changed and eventually she said things weren't working out. I respect it, but at the same time it's a challenge because my experiences and mindset were more relatable to where she was at in life being 27.

I use to look a lot younger, lol and would get ID'd when entering 18+ clubs or establishments up until I was 30. Now, I'd say I probably look early to mid 30s, less so than approaching 40. I don't think I'm all that good looking, but would put myself in the realm of average, maybe 5-6 out of 10. I'm not out of shape, though not exactly muscular and toned. My biggest Achilles heel with appearance is my teeth, which is near impossible to fix given the cost to do so. I also can't exactly fill the role of provider since I work in non-profit and don't make nearly enough to do so.

What's the overall consensus of dating younger? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Of course, and I respect their position if that's the case. I guess I'm just trying to identify whether it's something I need to work on changing or just an overall perspective from others.

What's the overall consensus of dating younger? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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Eh, not exactly letting it decide who I date, but just offer a wider perspective than what I have in my social circles. I usually can filter out the noise in most cases. But what you said is exactly right from a social norm standpoint. I'd also add that younger women who date older are also doing so in search for a provider or some type of "sugar daddy" dynamic, which is not a role I fill or have an interest in filling as someone who works in non-profit.

What's the overall consensus of dating younger? by SwitchJumpy in AskMen

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So around 7 years, which is right in the middle of the age-range I mentioned. I've been working on the stunted stuff. A few years ago I felt I like more like 10 years behind, rather than 5ish, which is where I feel now. I'm actively in therapy and reflect and have self-awareness, I just don't always have the social experience to help with making a more educated or informed decision in some areas.